Sore vagina from too much sex, how to soothe?

Hey guys

so I've been having a lot of pretty rough sex lately (same partner in case you're worrying about STD's). So as a result my vagina is sore, not achy sore but like the skin near the bottom of the opening feels like it was stretched too much and stings to the touch now.

Anyone got some suggestions to help soothe this without refraining from sex?
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  • Fucking until you're sore indicates that you may have micro-tears in the walls of your vagina, or along the inside of your vulva.

    To soothe, you can take warm baths, even adding epsom salts. If it's just a little sore from occasional rough sex, this is fine. You DO have to refrain from sex for it to heal - give it a few days. Otherwise, just be gentle when wiping and keep the area clean, ventilated and dry.

    Keep an eye out for yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis, as they both flourish in an environment where the mucosa and integrity of the vaginal walls is compromised.

    It is probably a bad idea to make a general habit of sore/raw sex because it is not conducive to the health of the vagina. Consider using an appropriate, long lasting lubricant.

  • How many times it was in a day? I have enjoyed it three times or more occasionally with my husband, but it was never rough or against my deep desire to enjoy. You may apply some water based or gel based cream, Ask your man to go gentle (may go as deep as he wish ), and restrict movements - keeping his organ inside you for as long as he wish in missionary position or if you would like to control him - in woman on top position only for three or four days. If possible avoid using condom - it may get you more dis-comfortable.

  • Unfortunately it sounds like you have a tear. Which would only get better with either less sex, or less rough sex. You can try witch hazel on it to help soothe the ouch. Also if your partner can see where the tear is, you can put some neosporin on it

Most Helpful Guys

  • This may sound weird, but what is the condition of your partner’s penis skin? You need to consider that even a small spot of dryness or coarseness can cause you a lot of pain and discomfort. I use a penis health crème once a day in order to keep my penis skin moisturized and smooth. My girlfriend used to get sore all the time too and it turns out it was my fault. These crèmes are great though.. no more soreness and our sex life and relationship are better because if it. You can get one of these crèmes online.

    • I would have never thought of this. Might be something to try

  • The best way IS to refrain from sex for probably 5 days or more.
    And this is just a guess but maybe there's some type of lotion for this? You would need to find out if it's safe to use on that location or not. And even if you do find something, it would only shorten the healing time down to 2 days most likely.

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  • Avoiding sex for a little would be the best idea. You might find that soaking in a warm bath helps soothe it a bit. If you must have sex then at least use lube to make it easier on your already sore skin.

  • in your spare time try stretching it more than you usually get it stretched while having intercourse, this way when it comes to sex again it won't be as much stretched as you have been stretching it yourself. there you go. next question.

  • Ice pack! Obviously not directly on the skin. Or a cold wet cloth. And then next time try a water based lube!

  • sore vagina maybe you should ease up on the rough sex before you get really hurt.

  • Yes, refrain from sex. lmao Your comfort is your call.