Spit or swallow, how do you decide?

okay I've never given a guy a blowjob before but this is the one question that I have been pondering, how do you decide whether to spit or swallow, also as a bonus tell me any tips or ways to give a really good blowjob
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okay the guys are saying that some men prefer you swallow and others don't care, would a guy be offended if I asked what he would prefer?
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also if you spit where do you spit it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Swallow. Its just so much sexier to me that you take that part of me and make it part of yourself. Spitting it out, although I understand why some do, seems like you're saying "ugh! Get him out of me!" in a way. Tips--tongue in opening, frenulum, hand action around the base, watch your teeth--ouch!, be enthusiastic, suck and lick like you desperately want his come now, don't change up method too frequently as I hate it when its feeling great almost going to come, then BAM she changes up! That being said, you'll have to balance what feels great for him with what won't wear your mouth out. I have to say also, if this is your first blow job, you probably won't have to worry about spit vs swallow.;-) and don't be surprised, many guys can't come from a BJ alone. Many reasons for this but it doesn't mean we don't love it or that you're not doing it right. Just love it and keep practicing and you'll be great.

  • honestly some girls prefer not to swallow and some enjoy the taste

    its purely preference. also.. a great fyi. it also depends on what the guy eats

    i mean food could make it sweeter or salty... honestly...

    but its great either way to get a blow job in general lol. I think all guys can say NAY to that

    and for how to blow job. some like it hard some like it sensual

    once again its a preference thing. honestly just get a hold of the shaft

    work it with blowing. that usually does the job... most girls thinks putting there mouth around it

    would call it good and say that's a blowjob. it takes work when please a women...

    use the same concept. please... think about it :D

Most Helpful Girls

  • I just made the decision that when I gave a blowjob for the first time I'd swallow. That way I'd get into the habit of it and there wouldn't be some mega panic of 'ahh, he's about to cum! What do I do?!?' thing. MOST guys prefer it, there's nothing wrong with asking a guy his preference but I just find it easier and mess free to swallow. That and girls argue they spit because of the taste. If it lands in your mouth what are you going to taste longer, something you need to find a tissue to spit in or just swallow it straight down.

  • i always swallow! for a start guys love it when you do ;) so if you don't want to swallow don't let it happen in you mouth.. just let him off load on you boobs.. cause they love that too :P plus think of it this way when he's licking you out you're also producing fluids and you don't see him spitting them out so I just think that we should return the favour by swallowing :) and you don't want to offend him neither :P tip get him to eat pineapple :P it makes his junk taste wayyyy better :)

    • wow I like the way you think lol...your words got me excited

    • calm down :P

  • I swollow. why? a few reasons, one. guys seem to enjoy it more. two. Its messier to spit, three. spitting is not going to make the taste go away any faster, if anything I'll have it in my mouth longer to get something to spit it into.

    and my final and favorite reason: didn't your mama ever tell you it's rude to spit ;p

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  • I always swallow, it completes the blow job:)

    • good answer lol

    • can I ask a favor would you go answer the question I posted? thanks

  • Swallow ;)

    It's rude to spit.

    • haha your my kind of chick

  • Swallowing makes no mess and guys love it, spitting is reallyonly done by girls that can't stomach it at all but still are willing to let guys finish inside, you forgot about just not letting the guys finish inside but that is a terrible terrible option the guys could suffer stroke so if you are intrested in his health you shouldnt

  • I always swallow. Most guys don't like it if you spit.

  • Your first time giving one you don't necessarily have to have him ejaculate in your mouth if you're not sure. Some guys like girls that swallow, it really comes down to your own choice though.

  • Most men prefer that you swallow, but we will also understand if you don't want to as well. It's purely your choice based upon taste, and since (I'm told) every man's semen tastes different, you will need to evaluate this on a case-by-case basis.

    My tip to you is to pay close attention to the frenulum.

  • youre the girl, you can decide by yourself... if you like to swallow, just do it. if you feel mad about it, just spit it or let him come somewhere else than your mouth

  • I swallow. It feels good to make him feel good. Also, I like to flick my guy's penis with my tongue, it really gets him going. Also, try to slap your tongue with his d*** and let him take control every now any then. :)

  • Swallowing may be better,It make men feel good,besides,sperm is good ,it contents some special proteins and frucoses,swallow it! GOOD JOB!