Still horny after 35??

I am dating a guy who is 36 and thinking of getting into a serious relationship with him. I'm in my late 20s and haven't dated anybody this age yet. I am a little concerned about his libido. I like to have sex a lot. but does he? Do you guys still get horny after 35? How horny?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ok, I may not be able to help you, but what I think is:

    a guy will always want to have sex. Even when I don't want to have sex, I want to have sex.

    & at my age, I can't see not wanting to have sex at that age.

    I've been told that a lot happens during your aging process.

    Your mind mostly, is one thing that changes.

    Some may see sex as a smaller thing of desire once they reach certain ages.

    Some may want to have sex, but can't due to some type of erection dysfunction.

    In your case since you like to have sex so often, I would advise against this.

    Keep in mind that they do make things for older guys, and that should let you know that older guys do have that desire to want to have sex.

    I hope that helped.

    Sincerely,

    A Loving Black Man

  • It is all downhill after 18 for us!

    Kidding aside, a sexual drive has nothing to do with age as there are individuals well into their fifties who have more regular sex than most twenty year olds.

    Let me ask you, has your guy not shown any interest in sex with you and the best way to find out is to simply tell him. If he does not jump on the idea of a lot of sex then he simply has a lower sex drive than you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • A guy is at his sexual peak in his late teens and women are at their sexual peak in their thirties.

    BUT that's not to say that men's sex drives totally diminish as they age. Lots of guys I know are in their 30s and are still incredibly sexually driven.

    I think the only way you will know if you are sexually compatible in your needs for sex if you ask him or if you have sex.

  • Guys are so much hornier than girls that you probably won't notice a thing. I think this holds true until they start having physical problems with getting and staying hard. And in the age of Viagra, this isn't as much of a worry as it used to be. I've dated a few 35 and older and never had any problem.

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  • Yes, I believe that you'll be OK. My friend is 28 & is married to a guy 52. The only thing that she complains of is lack of "initiating" but starting out at 36 I don't think that will be a problem with you two.

  • I'm in my 50's and still horny all the time. A lot of it has to do with how interesting the sex is. Still exciting and doing different things without games keeps it alive. Particularly if you show interest in what turns him on and are willing to try things (of course he should reciprocate, but that's another issue).