Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Okay.
I've been seeing a lot of questions regarding whether a girl is, "tight enough" or whether they have an "ugly vagina", or whether or not they should shave or whether or not they need surgery.
Also a lot about breast size, mainly about having them not firm enough, or they have stretch marks, or their nipples being ugly, they're too big or small and shit like that or being insecure about thigh gap.. fat legs and body shape.
Let me just stop you there.
Ok for starters the one I'm going to touch on first is the most common one I'm seeing
Ok shaving is entirely up to you. If you feel that it'll make you feel better because you don't have a bush or if you want to do it because of a health reason, or you feel that you'll be cleaner if you mow the lawn, great. Do what you like but it is there for a reason. It creates a barrier to protect your pubic bone during sex and to stop you getting bruised down there so if you just want to because everyone else is doing it. Don't.
And one more thing. DO NOT SHAVE BECAUSE YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS YOU TOO. if you're doing it for your own reasons then fine. But shaving can become very uncomfortable very quickly. Things like razor burn, ingrown hair's, and rashes from your underwear rubbing against your freshly bald area WILL BE UNCOMFORTABLE. It burns, it itches and it's not fun.
Now as to whether or not a girl is "tight enough" first let me tell you a few things.
1. Tighter is not always better. Some guys will love it but being too tight will make a guy that wants to take his time, because he really wants the experience to be as good for both of you as possible will not like it if you're incredibly tight because it will make him finish faster.
2. You can't tell if a girl is a virgin or how if she's slept with a lot of guys by whether or not she bleeds, how tight she is or how dark her vulva is. It just doesn't work like that. All girls are different. That's it.
Vagina's are like a fingerprint. They're all different they all have a different look they all have different shapes and shades and they all have a different "size". Also if a girl doesn't feel tight it's either because she's naturally like that or because she's really into the person she's sleeping with. A girls vagina doesn't "loosen" due to sleeping with lots of guys. After sex it'll shrink right back to it's original size. Unless child birth is concerned and there has been some tearing and it didn't heal right. Otherwise even then it will eventually shrink back to it's original size.
The ugly vagina.
What even is that?
Some guys have a preference about what his ideal looking pussy is. Most likely from watching too much porn. Girls in porn generally have vagina's that look like that because they've had a corrective surgery so they all fit a similar profile.
Here's the thing. Those surgery's are intrusive, painful and don't always get the desired results.
Don't get plastic surgery on your vagina because it doesn't look the way the porn stars do.
Your vagina is perfect no matter what it looks like and if he doesn't like it. He doesn't have to put his Dick in it. Because I can guarantee someone else will love it.
If you're thinking of getting "designer vagina surgery" for your own reasons like you're not happy with it (for whatever irrational reason ), or because you have a genuine discomfort like your lip's are so big that they pinch and rub or get thrush and things like that. That is the only time I would suggest doing it.
Fat girls.
Okay most girls posting on here saying they're trying to lose weight and weight 54 kilos.
Just stop. You're at a healthy weight you're not fat and any guy that tells you that you are is just trying to break you down so it's easier to get into your pants. And a thigh gap is a ridiculous standard to try and follow. Only skinny girls with wide set hips can even have to possibility of thigh gap.
Personally I don't like the idea of girls being that skinny. I LOVE GIRLS WITH STRONG LEGS. not like, body builder strong but a thicker pair of legs and a nice round perky butt is a lot more attractive for some people than a thigh gap, skinny legs and a flat bum that can be distinguished from your back.
Okay breasts.
There is only one thing I have to say.
Boobs are great.
No matter what size you have they're beautiful. Don't think that because they're not one hundred percent perky or even if they're saggy that they're ugly. Firm breasts are nice but the softer ones that aren't all that perky are just as fantastic. Stretch marks are a natural thing on breasts because some girls develop them very quickly. And nipple color whether it be a dark brown to a light pink with a big or small areola. They're beautiful.
Believe it or not they also have a purpose. To feed infant children should you chose to have a baby.
So don't spend lots of money on surgery to have them altered because it is quite likely that it will effect your ability to produce milk.
You know those little around your nipples?
They're a gland that produces an oil of sorts to keep your nipples healthy they are a good thing to have and they aren't ugly either.
The only time you should get surgery on your breasts is if you have an a cup on one side and a d on the other. And I'm not saying you should. I'm saying it is an option if you're very self conscious about it and really really will not ever be happy until you fix it. Then I say do it because it'll be YOUR CHOICE on YOUR BODY for YOUR HAPPINESS.
thankyou.
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