Stops me before he finishes during hand job wtf?

[mk_2012]

So my boyfriend and I fool around. We haven't had sex or anything but when I'm giving him a hand job he stops me right before he cums. I mean he commented the first time abount not wanting to make a mess, but is that the real reason? Why wouldn't he want me to finish him?

[Masterbator]

Well, you could speak with your boyfriend and tell him that you don't care about mess and that you like ejaculate liquid.

I like it, when she stops before I come. Then, after a view seconds or more she starts again to pet my penis and balls. After a while there is again this certain point where you normally cannot stop ;-).

This turns me on and on and on. The feeling before the orgasm is much stronger and when you decide to cum, the orgasm is much greater than a "normal" or "average" orgasm.

In the tantra scene this is normal. You can strech the point of ejaculation and have a much higher orgasm.

Furthermore I can ejaculate much more and more far when the point of ejaculation is beeing delayed.

[sinful1620]

Maybe he's not emotionally ready to share that experience with you?

[Cleera]

Mess is a very real and embarrassing reason. He doesn't want someone too see them come and having to clean it all up. Just respect his decision and see what happens.

[suziecuzie]

sweetie, try offering to have him finish in your mouth. No muss/no fuss. All squeaky clean.

[sylar]

That's the only possible reason I can even fathom as to a guy wanting you to STOP before he cums. I've never asked a woman to stop anything before I came mess or not.