Straight guys liking butt play, is this normal?

Question

My straight boyfriend and I were fooling around the other day. I had my vibrator out and my boyfriend was watching me play with it along my body. Later my guy kept moving his butt at me like he wanted it and he said, "Are you going to help me out and put it in my butt?" So I did what he asked and put some lube on it and put it in his butt. I moved the vibrator the vibrator all over and my guy was super turned on the whole time.I have been dating him a year and he has never asked me this before. This sexual act made me question a few things. However after I did that to him he was still turned on and did me so hard. I could even feel my vibrator too and we both got off very hard while he was in me. The sensation when the vibrator was involved made things indescribable in a good way when he did me.Anyways my question is it normal or not  to have a straight guy like any type of butt play from his girlfriend?

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

There's a need for some basic anatomical understanding here.  The prostate is very sensitive and is adjacent to the rectum.  When you insert the vibrator, it's directly against the prostate and the sensations are very positive and very intense.  Almost any straight guy who tries it will like it.  If he has hang ups, he needs to get past them.  It's also a huge turn on for you to insert one or two fingers and massage his prostate.  It's on the front side of the rectum and is roughly the size and shape of a walnut.  One of the most intense orgasms I ever had was when she massaged my prostate while she went down on me and when I was about to cum, pressed very hard on it.  I felt like I was blowing her head off.

Jonny_ · Accepted Answer

It's normal to an extent, since the 'male g-spot' is there... it's also second to only the penis in terms of pleasure receptors. At the same time, not many guys are fully comfortable with it. Mentally a lot of guys see it as 'gay'. Which is stupid really. Personally it does feel alright although it's not something I've ever fully been into.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Oh my gosh! When will people learn that anal play does not in any way, shape, or form mean that someone is gay? It's incredibly ignorant to assume that (I'm not saying you are ignorant, I'm only saying it's ignorant to make assumptions about someone's sexuality simply based on a sexual act). It's only "gay" if he's f***ing another man! And if he truly was gay, why would he be with you?

A lot of guys like a little butt play, the prostate is the male equivalent of the g-spot in women. It feels very good for them and most times, results in a harder, more intense orgasm for him. There's nothing "wrong" or "abnormal" about it. It doesn't mean he's not straight...

Account · Accepted Answer

In my book, it's perfectly normal. Guys can get off from anal stimulation because prostate is the male equivalent of g-spot. That has nothing to do with sexuality in my opinion. Just because he enjoys anal stimulation, doesn't mean he is not straight.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Anal stimulation has nothing to do with homosexuality. From what I've heard, the man's g-spot (or the male equivalent) is hit there. So when done well, straight men love it too.

wpmason · Answer

If it happens with a girl, it isn't gay.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Um no it is not normal for straight guys but this sh*t still happens - its not gay because its with a girl but yeah its still weird in my book

wagsingle · Answer

Yes, it's normal. I think if most guys could get past the feeling that it's gay, and tried having a vibrator on their prostrate they would like it.

cheflove69 · Answer

if you both like it why question it? It was hot and got you off hard too what's wrong with that?

tiredofwaiting · Answer

Yes it feels good to them and doesn't make him gay, not all guys are opened to do it but it isn't gay if it is with a woman.

SaltandVinegar · Answer

uh no way

Anonymous · Answer

Yeh it's normal. My husband lives toys, he really likes me to do him with a strapon too.

Anonymous · Answer

your explanation makes it seem more than a bit odd... some guys are OK with it others have no desire at all.

Anonymous · Answer

It is suposed to feel very good for a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah I had a boyfriend who was straight but loved anal play I'm sure more men love it then we know but are afraid to expirence it or consider it b.c of the taboo of being gay