Symptoms after having protected sex for the first time?

[Anonymous]

So I had protected sex with this guy and lost my virginity. We used a condom. It was about a week after my last period, and now, three weeks later, I'm having sore breasts, I had a little bit of white discharge, and some clear. I haven't been spotting, but I've had some stomach pains that are like cramps. I asked the guy if we were safe and he said that we were. I'm just paranoid, but my breasts aren't normally sore. And it's just my nipples. I think it may just be because he sucked on them and made them sensitive, because they were sore right after, and then stopped. Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

Condom breakage?

Did you hear / feel any sort of " pop " like noise? Was there any foreplay in which he could have touched you with sperm on fingers at any time, or was there any penetration without condom in which he could have pre - ejaculated?

3 weeks + week after period - is about a month give or take. Could be your period just coming along, as it seems about the time for it. There may be slight hormonal changes once you start becoming sexually active but noting incredibly significant like what your feeling.

I know implantation bleeding ( egg attaching to uterus,) can cause cramp and like a light period ( spotting,) and tender breast are often associated with possible pregnancy...

[Asker]

No pop noise, and I demanded he put one on before we do anything like that. It was hard to get him to get it up, and so I doubt there was anything like that. I calculated it, and I should be starting it within the next few days, at most by the end of the week. And it's sore, and sensitive. Could it be from him pulling and sucking? And they look smaller, not bigger.

[Opinion Owner]

could be he was a little rough with them and they are still sore. Look out for darkening of the aereolas as that's usually a sign of potential pregnancy. But yea, usually they start to grow not appear smaller so, I wouldn't worry just yet...

[awintergirl]

Sounds like your just going to get your period soon?

[Asker]

That's what it feels like. I even had some light cramps that I normally get before I start my period, but my breasts have never been sore like this. Not since they stopped growing and evened out. I'm just worried. It could be the extra hormones that I'm not used to maybe?

[awintergirl]

Yes could be extra hormones. I never used to get sore breasts before my period, but then in the last few months I have, so it could just be due to hormonal changes. Wait a few days and if you get your period then great. If not, you can start to worry then!

[babygirlll123]

Were you pregnant? This happened to me and im slightly freaking out