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Taking her virginity, missionary or doggystyle?

So my friend and I have always been really close, she's dated a few guys but never found the "one". She always told me it has to be the perfect guy, someone she can trust. And knows he will not run to his friends and brage about it. Yesterday she confronted me and told me she knows who he is, I was kinda cunfused because she just broke up with this guy (was the typical wanna be gangsta guy lol) that's when she told me the only guy she could trust with it was me. Because well she's my best friend so who am I going to brag to right? Aha So she's coming over tomorrow, and told me she wants me to be in compleat control (because I'm the one with experience) but I had a thought.. Usually when I take a girls virginity she wants it missionary so she can see me/ hold me or whatever. But that might be awkward since she's my best friend.. So should we do it doggy? Is there any position you would recommend?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I would vote, nor A nor B :P

    well yes, missionary if she reasonably believes she can be penetrated w/o a lot of pain, but I do believe this can not be standard answer, for example that one is actually the position my girl finds GREAT but also kind of painful because I am quite curved down and in missionary she feels I go to deep, and to far back, and often says it feels like being also amally stimulated, because of the curve, yours very likely is not the case, but still, for the FIRST penetration I would lay on my back and let her be cowgirl, that way she can chose the angle and how fast and how deep she wants to take it, but once she gets used to the feeling, I would do both doggy an missionary but yes, relying more on missionary is to make it more personal and deeply conecting, but yes, it might be weird with a best friend (I tell you as some one that was made a similar "offert" but I really did not feel confident to accept, so I didnt, It would have been weird to me), but try it, I think SHE will enjoy it regardless, even if it is awkward to you I guess for her first time she WANTS that connection, I honestly like doggy better, but again, after she has gotten used to it I would try both positions, maybe more, I would, being her first time, take the whole day in a nice place, only bother by 3 meals comming along the day, and then, peacefully and at her rythm try many things.

  • Missinoary is the best position for virgins. It's more comforting for them to hold their man while they drive it in.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Definitely missionary. It's her first time so make it a good memory for her. Make it sweet and slow and sensitive. It'll also allow you to communicate with her and make sure everything is going at the right pace for her. Please just make it special for her. First time is important. Don't be afraid of making it awkward just be slow and sweet. Not to mention doggy would be more painful cause it's really tight and is deeper penetration.

    • Great answer.

  • Is she worried about the pain? The least painful is missionary. But since you two are friends, the intimacy of missionary will be awkward. Cowgirl would give her complete control to help minimize the pain, but doggy style would also be good for just friends. Switch it between cowgirl and doggy.

  • What makes it so special if it is not missionary where you can look at each other hug, kiss etc for that special moment something she will remember, not just some guy with his penis in her from behind while she is on all 4's. Doggie, cowgirl etc are all for the fun after the cherry is gone.

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  • My vote is for missionary.

  • Missionary and let her legs go up so you and she both can she the scene where your **** pop her cherry. great ceremony.

  • Cowgirl so that she has more control.

  • Are you sure this is a good idea?

    One of you will probably have feelings for the other. Especially her if she is losing her virginity. It could ruin the friendship.

    • Really, don't do this! If one of you ends up developing feelings and the other doesn't reciprocate it could be devastating.

  • Go for missionary.

  • Missionary. It will be easier for her to relax. You could do cowgirl, but then she said she doesn't want to be in control so probably not.

  • I vote missionary.

  • Personally, I vote missionary. It's the position where the pelvic muscles are most relaxed, so it's less likely to be painful. It doesn't have to be terrible-awkward, it could just be... sweet-awkward :P

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