Tease a guy and not have sex?

What happens if a woman you're dating gives you a massage but she does't help you c**m, but if the massage was only because you were tired from work and she only wanted to do something nice for you? And if she leaves you like that, would you never talk to her again? would you stop talking to her for that?... Even if she said she didn't want to do anything for that day? well, if there isn't sex yet! only kisses...
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**Ok...only kisses and touching a bit...I admit it!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't mind the massages. I'll appreciate the gesture if it's nonsexual. But if you're doing this intentionally once a while just to tease and hold back sexually...it's gonna drive me wild and wanting more. So I like to think it's leading to something REALLY good. :)

    I won't get mad or anything. You're a really good tease and know how to build up sexual tension ;) It can fun but you're only building up the horniness meter for the guy...But if you do it frequently. That's plain evil and it may be frustrating for the guy knowing that he'll never have sex with you.

    • That's a good answer, well, it was a bit sexual to be honest...we were half naked but I was clear since the beginning I wasn't going to have sex with him...! but the massages were with the intention to make him relax from work :)

    • I'm reminded of Brad Paisley's - I'm Still a Guy song... "But when you say a backrub means only a backrub, Then you swat my hand when I try, Well, what can I say at the end of the day, Honey, I'm still a guy." :)

    • Lol...ok, thanks! but what do you mean with "I'm still a guy" would you call me again!?! haha

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  • Well if it just a massage and she is not rubbing my legs very sensual, and we never did anything sexual before and all that I would not get too excited and expect sex. If we were sexual before and I knew or felt that I was being teased then I would of course be a bit frustrated.

    • Ok...how frustrated? hahaha

    • grrrrrr very frustrated! and thnx so much for the BA

Most Helpful Girls

  • It is no reason to stop talking to her ever again. Geez! Just because you didn't get what you wanted you are honestly going to pout, be mad & never going to talk to her again? She should stop talking to you.

  • It isn't called teasing if that wasn't her intention. If she's just trying to be a little helpful without any signs of sexuality, you should learn to say, "down boy."

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  • If it's just a massage, I wouldn't expect sex out of it.

    • Well, he really wanted more!...but ok...let's wait if he calls!