The girl I'm dating wants to whip me?

She is a little crazy in bed (which is really fun) but now she wants to do the whole S@M thing where she is a dominatrix and I'm her slave. She makes it sound really appealing. What she wants to do is whip me with a riding crop really hard on the butt. I've never done this before. Is this normal for girl to want to do this. She seems to want to take this very seriously while doing it. I also wonder how bad it's going to hurt? She said if I do agree to it that she is going to do it full force and if I don't like it we will just never do it again, but while we are doing it she is going to put all of her into it because it's a HUGE fantasy of hers. Anyone done this or has anyone wanted to?I want to know what to expect because she wants to get to it SOON
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That's the thing-she isn't going to start gently. that's not an option for this or her. I can deal with it no matter what because i"m a big boy...Maybe I'll just put a time limit on it
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think her whipping you 'full force' the first time you two are experimenting with s&m is a good idea. Roll play and dominating one another can be a lot of fun and very pleasurable but you need to ease into it, or else someone could get seriously hurt. Start off slow and make sure you have a safe word. You don't need to go out of your comfort zone! Definitely expect it to hurt, but don't think that you won't enjoy it! Its been said that there is a fine line between pain and pleasure so go in with an open mind. I still think you both need to talk about it with each other more, and make clear what your boundaries are. Have fun and be safe!

  • No harm in trying it out! If it's not for you, as you say you don't have to do it again :P If you're worried about it hurting then just ask her to start off gently :P If she can't compromise that's hardly fair. Plus, it's pretty normal for a girl to want to dominate her man, so I wouldn't worry that she's weird for wanting to whip you... to be honest I bet you'll love it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • looooooooool the stuff you white people get up to in the bedroom!

    Ill tell you 1 thing, your a MUCH braver man than me if you go through with this. lol

  • Have a safe word.

    And remember to thank your Mistress often...

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  • she sounds like a sadist, I like her

    • I do too. How do I reach her? Lol

  • Go for it

  • Hell yeah. You'll be just fine. These women are rare. You are a lucky guy. I know it's maybe a year old question, but how did it go?

  • she can practice on me anytime