The "finally" is important. If you lead with oral sex early in dating, you will be viewed as shallow and insecure...using this to gain against lacking in personality. LESS
If you deliver it as an unexpected reward for a guy who respects you and stays beyond a few dates where you haven't jumped right into sport sex and have developed a satisfying friendship, the opposite is true. MORE, MUCH MORE.
I ask only one thing. If you are going to do it, finish it. Don't stop or ask him to tell you when the moment is arriving so you can. Very frustrating to the guy.0 0 0 0Its not about the girl. its about the guy who asked her for a blowjob. the girl is nice and all but its the guy who said he likes her and that but he says he's gonna stay if there is sex and he's not gonna be bored of her. from what it looks like after the blowjob, he's pulling away slowly which is hurting the girl because she stupidly gave in to a wolf dressed in sheep. :(
Of course I'll like her more. But I might move on anyway, if a blowjob is all I wanted.
1 1 0 0Wow that hurts. so the guy lied then. how should the girl move on for future calls from this d***.
Do what he did: forget.
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0 8The girl of my dreams would not "finally" give me a blowjob. I have no problem committing to a girl and after a few weeks if she's holding sex and physical intimacy over my head, I'm going to rapidly lose any feelings I had for her. If she's making me wait, or making me pester her for some minor sexual favor, she will never be the girl of my dreams.
Assuming the "finally" was just a poor choice of words, when the girl of my dreams gives me a blowjob (I'm presuming a pretty strong level of commitment already) I GAIN respect for her, because it's her showing that she really enjoys doing something purely because it makes me feel good.1 2 0 0Well this girl is all you wanted from a woman. almost perfect but the sad thing is she's not yours. that's what y she's called girl of your dreams. and the guy in question here asked for it. but she didn't wanna give it to him because she thinks he will lose interest afterward. that's the situation
So you're refusing certain sexual connections because you're trying to control the situation. Thus not the girl of my dreams. QED.
Well said.
I suppose it's it's possible that some guys would see it as the "thrill of the chase" and once it happens the thrill is gone. But I should think on the whole, most guys would like you more.
0 2 1 0Id have to say the guy in question has like the girl less. and the rush is gone. :(
The girl of my dreams wouldn't hesitate to give me a blowjob, so I don't really understand the question.
1 1 1 0Well she doesn't belong to u. and she won't just give it to you btw.
Then she's not the girl of my dreams.
She still is because she doesn't belong to u. that's why she's called girl of your dreams, not in real life
We don't get bored. It's chemistry. There is something in our brain that once we had our orgasm, we aren't in the mood anymore. (not speaking out of experience since I never had anything)
but I can't imagine a guy liking his girlfriend less because of it. On the contrary, I've known guys who broke up because she didn't want to do it. They're pigs of course but it's the best proof I can think off. Try to get yours before he gets his, that's what I would do if I ever get so lucky, guy goes down first.0 0 0 0His not his girlfriend. he is the girl of his dreams, that almost too good to be true girl for him. yea she should have just hold on to it not give in
I honestly don't think a blowjob is all I'm looking for.
2 1 0 0Thats a really good answer. you're one of those good guys.
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