The guys I have sex with cum fast, why?

k so I've had sex with 2 guys so far, and i've only had sex 2 times in my life.. Both of them came really fast, like, under 10 minutes fast, the guys my friend had sex with lasted for 20-30mins.. IS there maybe something wrong with me because my "sex partners" can't seem to last that long
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I know the first time I have sex with a girl, it usually won't last long, or I can't cum at all, just from anxiety/excitement. by the way, the usual time for sex with men is about 10 min I think. With a partner I am dating and comfortable with, I'm about 15 min, so I would try to have more relationship sex, it is always a million times better than a ONS

  • R u fucking kidding me.
    according to my experience and i m quite good at sex
    no guy can last more than 2-3 mins on first go.
    2nd time its like15-20 mins but i have to deviate my mood once to stop ejaculation.
    and third time usually 25 mins around without pills.

    More than half hr is not possible without taking pills.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Over stimulation. Some men play a game in their heads so they won't cum too early. My ex would stop when he was over stimulated, go slow and think about baseball until the urge subsided. Lol. It worked for him. My current just takes it out and holds it for about 15 seconds.

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  • Tell them you want it longer

  • You might be really hot that's why they cum fast.

  • Maybe you're too hot to handle? lol
    Maybe it was their first time or it's just a coincidence

    • Too hot to handle? Lol. There's a fine line between someone being extremely excited and Cumming fast and another between just being a one minute man, not making any effort to hold out

  • Either you're really good or you're their first.

  • Nope that's not your fault...

    That depends on solely guys how much it takes them to cum..

    All have different cum times... Some cum within 2 minutes.. Some 20/30 minutes..
    Using delay techniques guys can improve their time