The Reason Why I'm Insecure about My Penis Size

The Reason Why I'm Insecure about My Penis Size

I know these things get asked a lot or there are a lot of takes on penis size and it can be tedious and annoying but i just want people to understand why i'm insecure about it. I'm 4 inches and i know it's small and it sucks when life gives you an unfortunate hand to deal with. This picture represents how i feel inside because of my size. Ya you may think it's ridiculous but read the rest to understand better.

I know a lot of girls say that guys with small sizes shouldn't be insecure. Okay but how am i and other guys not supposed to be insecure when most girls on this site say that size matters and small penises are a turn-off? It's a confidence crusher and it messes with self-esteem. I know i sound bitter, buy it's more self-hatred for myself. I literally criticize myself and hate myself for my size a lot. It's coming to a point where i feel no girl will ever give me a chance because of my size, almost as if i'm not worthy of sex from a potential partner because of it. I have this belief that most girls would dump and leave a guy for having a small penis and go out with another for having a bigger size.

It's gotten worse to the point where i feel no desire for sex even masturbating. I don't masturbate anymore and i feel my sex drive is going down because i don't desire sex anymore because of my size. I'm envious of guys who have a better sex life because of their size, they seriously have nothing to worry about when they're average or above average, hell it gives them confidence while it makes me feel like shit. I'm coming to conclusion that i should just try and love myself again because if nobody will love me because of a body part, then at least i am my own person that needs to learn to love myself when nobody else will.

It's frustrating, why did i have to be given shitty genetics, while others are blessed and have nothing to fear? 4 inches 10 cm is a curse, i seriously am not even thinking about dating anymore because of it. I'm sure a lot of other guys feel the way i do and are calling it quits because of it. It's not girls faults, i know it's human nature to be attracted to certain things. I also it's human nature to be disgusted by abnormal things and it's fine, nobody's fault but my own. I will try my best to focus on other things in life instead of focusing on sex since i will never experience it because of my size. I know that life is not all about sex and i knows there's more to life.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Listen dude, you still have your manhood of 4 inches and 10 CM, that's a good length. All a guy needs is 3 inches to satisfy women and your not alone in your thinking. I'm under 5 inches of length so I know what you mean, it does suck when you compare yourself to a guy like Frank Sinatra. But you shouldn't let it get to you.
    There are women out there who like guys with a smaller penis. If you think about it, having a five inch penis going in someone has to hurt in a way. With 4 inches, yours will be more pleasurable.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Most girls do not care. The ones who do are insecure themselves about something or are just stuck up snobs. But grown, mature women truly do not care. 4 inches is only like 1 inch smaller than the average size anyway. And you said you're 4 inches and 10 cm. Last I checked, that is actually almost the national average in the US anyways.

    I don't get why guys think girls can look at a penis and tell how big it is. We aren't programmed with a ruler in our brains lol.

    • @Elarra Not sure why you got so many downvotes for that.

    • @RegularTK421 Probably for the fact that I disagreed with what he said. You know most people on this site can't handle someone having a different opinion lol

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  • you do realize that you only need 3 inches to satisfy a woman, right?

    sure, some women like big dicks. but not everyone's a size queen, and anything past 3-4 inches is just for show/doesn't actually add pleasure.

    we women are often told that only thin girls are deserving of love. i'm no supermodel, but my husband loves me anyway, and i've come to like myself as well; in time, you will too.

  • Literally most of my female buds that are close to me are with guys around your size. Yes, on this site you will see a lot of women say big is ideal, tall is ideal, fit is ideal: but ideals > reality are two different things.

    Most men would love to date a woman who looks like a celebrity, does that mean he wouldn't date a woman that didn't live up to that? No. It's the same with dick size: sure it isn't ideal for a lot of women but it isn't exactly like we're 100% ideal ourselves. We sometimes have acne, lop sided boobs, tummy pudginess and so on. Doesn't mean we're unlovable. It's the same for smaller guys. If you treat it like it cripples you, it will.

    I'm not saying you won't possibly get rejected, I'm not saying every girl won't be a size queen. But most average girls won't totally write you off unless you allow it to totally cripple you.

    • The average girl still wouldn't accept my size for what it is. And you say they wouldn't totally write me off which implies that they'll still reject me damn size.

  • Hi Guy... Can I ask? how long have you been worrying about all of this? And also how long do you think you are going to be worrying about it? years? Will you beleave me when I tell you that you can infact grow your penis to as big as you want it? Because, a year from now, your penis will be 10 inches long. www.okaydick.com: check out this site, download information and videos, put an hour every two days to one side, and start growing. Not only will you penis grow but also your confidence in yourself. You will see... Don't worry too much because things change all the time and it is time for you to change what you don't like about yourself. True...

  • It would be average in Philppines, Cambodia and Myanmar, cheer up ;)

  • HEY MAN. I'M 4.5 INCHES LONG AND 5 INCHES THICK. I HAVE HAD SEX WITH 30 DIFFERENT WOMEN OVER THE PAST 4 YEARS. TRUST ME. YOUR SIZE doesn't MATTER. BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF AND NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF WHEN IN BED (CAUSE YOU LOOSE YOUR ERECTION DURING STRESS). ALSO FUCK ALL THOSE OTHER PEOPLE WHO SAYS OTHERWISE. TAKE IT FROM ME AND GO FOR IT AND FUCK THOSE GALS.