There's something wrong in the way you phrased your question.
You've framed it in such a way that you're leading for an answer, in the hopes that the answered you've lead everyone to will validate your own viewpoint (something many people have overtly said, and everyone else is thinking)
Example:
My viewpoint: I feel virginity is very important, but I also want a boyfriend. Rather than reconsider my situation, I want to create a sort of social rule or support system to possibly get guys to agree with me and comply with my point of view.
My Question: Guys? Would you rather prefer sex with some nasty STD-filled slut who has slept with like 5,000 guys? Or would you prefer to have sex with a very sweet, nice and loving virgin?
You're loading your question to get and answer that you want. If that's the case, why bother asking? Why not just sit in front of a mirror by yourself saying "guys prefer virgins, yes, that's what guys want, that's what they really want. they're not just saying that because I've framed it in such a way that they feel bad and guilty for disagreeing with me. Much like if a guy asked if I preferred a guy with money or without money. How would he reasonably expect me to answer such a question honestly? I would feel like a total gold-digging prostitute if I gave him an honest answer. So my answers to him would be completely useless, because they wouldn't be completely honest, since my guilt is preventing me from being 100% truthful with what I really feel. But hey, I'll ignore that little detail and take what guys have said as truth. They really do prefer virgins. So I'm okay."
Here are some more stand-alone questions:
Do guys prefer to risk getting STDs while having sex; or no? (No)
Do guys prefer girls who have issues with sex; or no issues with sex? (No issues)
Do guys prefer girls who want sex a lot, or barely want sex at all? (a lot)
Do guys prefer girls who love & enjoy sex, or who hate it? (love & enjoy it)
Do guys prefer girls who initiate & want sex, or make up excuses to not have sex? (initiate & want it)
Do guys prefer a girl that's been with no other guys before, a few guys before, or a lot of guys? (no preference, makes no difference)
Do guys prefer a girl with experience or no experience? (depends on the guy)
Do guys prefer a girl who thinks virginity is important, or no? (I dunno, do girls prefer a guy who thinks not making a move, paying for dates, being romantic or talking on the phone is important? or no?)
Do guys prefer a girl who makes him feel sexually desired and wanted, or a girl who makes him feel like a creep & weird for wanting sex? (desired & wanted)
Do guys prefer a girl who sexually accepts him, or sexually rejects him? (accepts him)
I hope you notice that the choices I've given you are between a virgin & slut. I didn't say a girl who is having sex with you or one that isn't having sex with you. But between the two, which one would you prefer? (the one that's having sex with you)
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I want a girl who hasn't thought about the concepts of virginity or lasciviousness for a long time. Like the very notion that people could have sex is absent from her head. It's so much better when one moment, a girl is just a cute little creature, and the next, she's a little bit sexy.
By Virgin you mean "Inexperienced" and by Slut you mean "Experienced"
Having experience doesn't make a girl a slut.Only insecure girls will degrade another chick due to their sexual history.
Anyways,for one night stands and hook-ups:Experienced
Relationship:It wouldn't matter(If they really liked you)
A virgin is inexperienced.Realize one thing,watching porn,having fantasies,masturbating and having basic and beyond common knowledge of sex as a virgin is great,but it doesn't mean you are experienced.Watching and reading about it,and actually doing it,are two different things.
Everyone is a virgin at one point,so you've commented an answer saying "Oh god see you're so true! Guys don't know how virgins are the ones who are more freaky and kinky in bed while sluts just want it then done virgins tend to experiment more!" sherlock,everyone is a virgin at one point or another,it isn't a newly found concept.
You honestly sound very insecure with yourself.If you were secure,you wouldn't try to make yourself feel better(as a virgin) by degrading girls who've had sex.
Yes I am a virgin,never done anything sexual,but I use logic
what guys don't realize is that "virgins" or the more sweet and innocent ones are also the ones who turn out to be the most amazing and intense in bed :) hahaha I've heard this many times from people I know.
Also sex isn't rocket science... either its good, you come or you dont. Foreplay is easy as well. I hate that guys say experienced are better. Well will the virgin make you come too? ...
Honestly it all comes down to how real and honest the guy is and what it is he's after. I would not sleep with just any guy because most of them that I've been with have been after one thing. So now that I don't sleep around because I won't just give myself to anyone (I have self respect and I'm not going to sleep around) I'm the sweet innocent virgin who won't give good sex... Really now? Who says I haven't got tricks up my sleeve? Come on! Its all just dumb to begin with.
Sex is sex and the more meaningful it is (Im not talking casual with sluts) the better and more intense it can be!
Oh god see you're so true! Guys don't know how virgins are the ones who are more freaky and kinky in bed while sluts just want it then done virgins tend to experiment more! Guys don't know what they miss when they "get tired of waiting around to sleep with a virgin" *snorts* idiots
Sleeping around doesn't men you don't have self respect...If you use protection against pregnancy and STDs you have self respect.It is virgin girls with this mentality that gives virgins a bad name.Many virgins have this "Holier than thou" mentality. And being with virgins,they have to go slow and make sure not to hurt the girl.Virginity isn't that big of a deal,and if you've never had sex,you are inexperienced
my boyfriend iis not a virgin but I am & he thinks its really hot that I'm technically "innocent" but I act naughty when we're alone. if a guys after you because he thinks your a slut, he's only looking for ass he doesn't want a real relationship with you
SOOOOOO true with what you said about you being a virgin and your naughty when you guys are alone! I'm like that too I look real innocent and sweet but my boyfriend knows better he knows I'm a total freak in bed I'm kinky with tying him down on the bed and all that best thing no one knows I'm like that!
QA: And you think non-virgins CAN'T be like that? Or is it just that they're slutty when they act that way because they've already had sex? Just trying to understand your point of view, because your 'knowledge' of sexual behavior seems a bit skewed.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!well it depends on the guy of course, is he's naturally a douche and likes to get some and stuff then he probably wants the slut
if it's naturally a nice, well rounded, sincere kind of guy, he'd probably go for the virgin.
definitely virgin lol. I don't want to do it with some loose slut. now I agree that there is a difference between experienced and a slut and everyone is gonna have a different opinion on that but yea.
I can't help but feel that this question is biased... I'm guessing you mean "Experienced" or "Inexperienced", and if it was just for simple sexual intercourse, I would pick experienced, every time, for obvious reasons.
If you weren't looking for an honest answer why did you ask the question? You weren't curious at all you were just looking for someone to support your own viewpoint. This guy will always prefer the slut over a crazy virgin like you.
I'm a virgin,but I think it's virgins like this who make people think we're all crazy
the slutty virgin please :)
Lol is there such a thing?
Slut. Virgins seem exotic, but here's the thing, virgins aren't willing to give it. You have to work for it, and I'm interested in having fun. I know it sounds pigish but I wouldn't want to marry one either. Virgins aren't experienced so the sex will take some time before it gets good, and I would want her to marry someone who's a virgin so that both of their first times would be with the other's first time. That makes it more special.
Why does everyone say that! virgins are experienced! Well I was for the most part. I guess because I explored what I wanted to do with my boyfriend before we even did anything I daydreamed a lot and I knew what to do so I guess that's why ew I wouldn't want to have sex with a slut. Knowing she'll go and bang somebody else after me and knowing I wouldn't be able to please her since she's had it so much already
if you never had sex you aren't experienced. period. For fucks sake, does reading a book about Mechanical engineering automatically make you an engineer? no. Yes, yes watching porn and playing around with yourself is nice and helps you get an insight on how things work and you gain theoretical knowledge, but actually having sex is a whole other thing. Theory and Practical skills are just different concepts, like it or not. Also, girl, get over yourself and your vagina. In your question you painted every woman who has sex a slut, AND on top of all you seem to generalize every single virgin and making them sound like these hypothetical "dream girls" you project in your head. "Oh yeah you know, they are cute and innocent but they are also slutty and experienced on the inside, it's a win win, i mean common guys, aren't we CLEARLY superior?"... i mean do you know every single virgin, or every woman to make that claim? Oh by the way, this is all coming from a virgin.
getting a slut is easy but the same doesn't apply to a virgin
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Well my girlfriend and i have been together 7 years she is 24 now. When i met her she was 17 and i was the 16th person she had sexual relations with. She was a huge slut. 2or3 before me were relationships. She hardly ever used condoms and said that she loved to suck dick. Even sucking and fucking some dude unprotected in an alleyway. In general she liked to be cum inside of by dudes. Just before me she was fucking a guy 10 years older than herself. She spoke about having mouthfuls of cum etc. And at the time i was disgusted. As time went on i accepted it as it dosnt mean she is of less value and she has never cheated. Her experience from sucking a lot of cocks made her a master and she gives the best sloppy head I've ever had, which i loved so i can't complain about her being a slut because it benefits me which means i like it. I think about her being a slut back in the day and actually get a hard from the thought.
I want a "clean women" but I would prefer a slut so to speak. I want a woman that's wild and dosen't mind to take charge. I don't see that happen with a virgin.
You men just don' t understand *sighs* I was never a "shy" nor a "inexperienced" virgin I was real kinky and naughty what I'm trying to say is that the innocent and pure ones are the ones that will end up being kinky and will want to experiment.
sluts are great cause there experienced and can be real freaky..but a tight virgin definitely has its upside too...id have to say the slut most times...edwardcullensgirl you are hot damn your sexy..hit me back
Uhm thanks I guess? And I don't understand that I would go with the virgin cause she would be pure and innocent! While the slut probably f***ed so many times she might have a diesea!! Sorry I spelled that wrong
Yeah she's pure but probably doesn't know what she's doing
Technically that is not true virgins know what they are doing
no doubt about it, I would prefer to sleep with a virgin girl over a slut. personally I wouldn't care about her experience and actually it seems kinda special to be her first. the general perception that I think some people are caught up with is they beleive because they are a virgin that involuntarily suggests that they will be awful in bed the first time which is completely false but even so it would be fun teaching and learning to get better together. I like how sex usually means a lot more to a girl who is a virgin then one who is not and it can bring them closer.
Good Luck, God Bless
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