I'm so sorry you're going through this. I have definitely been there before. The important thing is to recognize the situation for what it is: you have a ton of sexual energy with nowhere to put it. If you have a fling with someone else right now and find it unsatisfying, you might be compelled to call your ex and sabotage the break up (don't do that!) Here's my best advice: take that sexual energy and go to the gym. It will make you feel better on so many levels. Eventually you will have enough emotional distance between you and your ex that you can have a fling without jeopardizing the break up. You'll be fine soon. Trust me =)
I do get the urge to want to call her, but I know I can't do that. Then I get the idea to call other girls I know to try, and hook up...but that doesn't feel right either. It's tough.
I know. It is tough. Now is a really good time to delve into your interests and put that precious energy elsewhere. You can't have it bubbling up inside you, or you'll make bad decisions (like calling your ex.) Going to the gym is my first instinct since it mimics sex in many ways (the cardio, the sweating, the breathing.) It will also relax your body at night, which you need right now. Good luck hun!
Get a sexual connection with someone, maybe? Is that feesable? I'm really asking. Just like, a friendship, with sexual intimacy.
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