Three dates means sex?

False or true? If in the middle; explain. I was watching BBT, and Howard just found out that supposedly three dates equals that, and having like barely any dating experience haha, I was wondering if it was true?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • What the hell is BBT?

    What do you mean "equals sex"? Do you mean if that's when guys expect it?

    I dunno. I don't "expect" sex, like there's some strict deadline or anything. Instead, I'll move on when I feel like we should have been having sex already, if this girl didn't have some stick up her @ss regarding whatever issues she has with sex. That's not necessarily three dates. I mean, if the girl isn't that attractive, and I'm not really feeling a strong desire to have sex with her, and I can tell that our sexual chemistry is pretty whatever, then I know I'm really just here because of how she makes me feel. In that case, I really don't mind waiting for a month, or even two.

    On the other hand, if the girl is attractive, and I'm feeling a strong desire for her, and I can feel that we have really good sexual chemistry, that's not to say that the emotional aspect isn't there, but it is to say that I want to know if she feels the same way about me sexually. So, if we're not having sex after a few dates, and things are dragging along at a little Catholic high school virgin's pace, I basically have my answer - she's either not interested in me, or sex is not something that as important to this girl.

    But there's definitely no set time like 3 days. Guys just know based on the way they feel.

    • Sorry lol The Big Bang Theory

    • I don't think that show is serious; that was most likely a joke on the show.

  • It's normally abbreviated "TBBT".

    Anyway, the "3 Date Rule" mostly applies to *experienced*, *active* daters in their mid-20s and later. The idea is that 3 dates is the minimum amount of time a girl should wait to have sex so that she knows it's serious and so he knows she's not "slutty" (I'm not saying it's right or fair, but most guys think that way if she sleeps with a guy on the first date), but it's also not so long that the guy is going to lose interest or feel like he is wasting his time.

    It obviously does NOT apply to people who are inexperienced and/or who aren't actively out dating different people. Rather, it's a guideline for people who both WANT sex, but also want to make sure their *relationship* is taken seriously too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • false! lol You have sex when ever you're ready too! that could be in 5 hours or 5 years. It is different for everyone. Depends on when the couple AGREES that they are ready and compatible sexually.

  • It's different for every couple. I read somewhere that you should sleep with a guy after no less than 10 dates. Personally, I'm waiting till I'm married haha.

  • No this is not true. Every relationship is different and every persons feelings are developed differently. I would wait until you feel the moment is right.

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  • No, you put out when you're ready to. There is no number of dates or timeframe.

  • It's false.

  • False. You have sex when both partners feel ready, not after a number of dates

  • no!

  • Sometimes it does

  • Yes that's true

  • false if you want something serious.

  • No. Sometimes it happens on the first date, or sometimes after a few months. It just depends on when the couple feel ready for it.