Threesomes?

[meghan12885]

will having a threesome surely doom a relationship?

[ilovelegs]

For the normal couple wanting to keep their relationship a 2-some because they have genuine affection, concern and respect for each other, it definitely will sooner or later. For those couples where their relationship are more a matter of sexual convenience, fun and excitement, it'll be the same because It really won't matter since they don't have that much love or respect for each other anyway. Their relationships are already doomed from the start in as much as they won't last long because there's no worthwhile reason to keep them together.

[pwl0lwp]

the trick is to keep a handle on jealousy, which imho is easier said than done: threesomes need a lot of trust & maturity in a relationship.

like a lot of things they may be better as an idea than a reality, so be very sure of what everyone really wants beforehand.

good luck

[nicolenjb]

seriously these men don't know anything...they say do it and I say dont...if its you that wants to then go ahead, but be prepared for the consequences. if its your man that wants to, then take that as a hint that he wants to try something...or someone...different. just don't do it if your in a serious relationship, if not then explore away...

[l-hedoniste]

No. Poor boundaries doom relationships. Drama queens doom relationships. Miscommunication doom relationships. But not threesomes.

[John-Bee]

Have you ever had one?

[l-hedoniste]

Several.

[lefthand]

Absolutely not. For a healthy couple, they are a lot of fun and can actually bring a couple closer together because they got to share something wonderful.

If everyone in the relationship wanted to stay in the relationship in the first place.

[here4you]

well it wouldn't doom a relationship

but after you have a threesome the realtionship would not

be the same b4 the threesome

because the girl or the guy would get jealous

and would think that the other partner is having more

fun with the other partner

and such

so b4 you do it just make sure want to and think of everything b4 you begin

good luck =D

[jacquesvol]

Only if both are really self assured about their charms and abilities and assured about the love of the other and no-one has tendencies towards jealousy...and no-one will use it against the other to gain some advantage or take revenge for something (getting even, you know), real or imaginary.

That makes a lot of "If"s, probably to much for most girls and guys and couples.

But it happened, thus it is feasible...

[jacquesvol]

I got it slightly wrong (inverting the question): it will not doom a relation only if....

[Anonymous]

I think it is weird.