Tips for being dominant, women?

It's in the title, he likes to be dominated. I get the basics, but I want some specifically sexy dominating things I can do to drive him crazy. GO.
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Please, none of the weird sh*t. Like no choking and all that.
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  • best way for dominance is oral sex. Try this next time:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

    • Great answer, thank you!

  • Well, the thing about dominating someone is that there's tons of different kinds of dominance and someone might like some aspects but not others. For some guys, wanting a "dominant" woman might just be wanting a girl who initiates sex, decides what acts or positions they do, or is the person "on top" more often than not. For others, it might include things like pain, orgasm control, forced feminization, using strap-ons, humiliation/degredation, bondage or constraint, using the male as a "service sub" or slave (i.e. everything is about your pleasure and making you happy, and this sometimes extends outside the bedroom, for example, having him cook and clean for you, pamper you, buy you expensive things, etc.). The list goes on. My point is that you should spend time talking to your partner about this and exploring his fantasies to get a better idea about what kind of domination he likes before asking for tips on specific things you can do.

    • Well, he's not really my partner - so asking is out of the question.

    • Well, I didn't mean "partner" in terms of life partner, boyfriend, husband, or whatever. If you're having sex or otherwise dominating him, you have some sort of relationship with him, even if its just as a sex partner. Communication with a sexual partner is really important, particularly when you're experimenting with "out of the norm" things like domination/submission. If he says he wants you to dominate him and you go in there with a whip and paddle, but he isn't interested in pain...

    • Then it's not going to be an enjoyable experience for him, and may even turn out to be a very negative experience.

  • without being too weird since your new to this I would say to just show him who is boss. Get him standing by the bed, push him on the bed like you want it, undo his pants, if he kinda fights it, that's fine let him :) then if you give head? its your choice do that, and if he tries touching your body play the no touching game, grabs your boob? move his hand... lol guys go crazy when its right there and they can't touch, at least the guys I been with :) be on top also, that way your in complete control lol.. anyways I don't know this is pretty normal without too much wierdness to it lol

    • No it's not sex I'm new to, and it's not that I haven't dominated at all before but it was never the main focus. but this guy, it's just what he loves. his first girlfriend was a virgin and he couldn't stand it. I just wanna make sure I blow his mind, if we ever get together.

    • Haha oh gotcha.. I was just unsure cause you said no to the choking and stuff.. ha :) well if you wanna blow his mind.. take control of him completely lol :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am a submissive with my wife, I can't elaborate what others do , but, I can tell you how my wife dominates me: I enjoy being totally submissive with my wife. We do not practice slapping or hair pulling and things like that. She either likes to tie me up and bring me to the brink of orgasm and stop at least 6 times sometimes for a couple hours she will tickle me in between and make me beg. I only will orgasm when she lets me. Another game she likes for me to be her sex slave and I have to do any dirty deeds she wants I find these games very intense I also dominate my wife, but I prefer to be submissive

  • Throw him around, push him, even hit him if you have to when you're going at it--make the decisions and be rough while you're doing it. As long as you're not hurting a guy's delicate parts, us males feed off pain, really! Unless he's a wimp (in which case I doubt he'd want to be dominated anyway) he would definitely be able to handle, and enjoy, it!

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  • I've done this but he still asks for more. I feel like I can pleasure him enough and he'll resort to cheating on me.

    • How have you dominated him is the better question? Knowing what you have done can open other imaginations so they are not suggesting the same dominace tricks you have already done!