Tips for girls about to do anal for the first time

[Anonymous]

These are some tips nobody told me and I wish they had before I'd done anal, so from my experience...

Top tip #1 - girls, dont let him cum in you. it will not come out on its own accord, you have to actively push it out and it is gross.

tip #2 - do not impulsively decide to do it during a hot session, it will hurt and most likely not fit anyway. discuss with your partner, set boundaries. its you it will hurt and so the guy must understand it is completely in your control when he pushes and when he doesn't push (they will still try to push, so be firm)

tip #3 - prepare. practice. stretch. for at least a week beforehand. slowly with bigger objects, it will make it 10x easier on the day

tip #4 - LUBE. LOTS OF IT. you dont have enough lube, seriously, put some more on for good measure

tip #5 - relax. prepare yourself for it and dont stress out when it happens, if you stress out you will only get tighter and that will make it way more painful!

tip #6 - it will hurt. go very, very slowly, until its in, then a bit more pace helps distract from the pain

tip #7 - it is actually pleasurable so instead of worrying about it try to enjoy it

tip #8 - dont do it just because your partner has been begging for ages and youve finally given up and will let him try. once he's done it once he will get a taste for it and will always want to do it, so be prepared for that

tip #9 - when it comes time for him to pull out, RELAX RELAX RELAX. if you get stressed out, you will grip on more and it will be way more painful and difficult. and the same for going in applies, its completely at your pace and your control, tell the guy exactly how fast to go. and NEVER let him pull out fast, it will hurt both you and the guy!

Have fun and good luck :)