How about this:
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck
Wow thanks, I'm getting horny just reading this ha ha although this is very specific to bjs I'll definitely be giving this a go :P
There are plenty of things you can do.
1. Set rules: Limit the scope of intimacy. Be playful, yet assertive and make sure he follows the rules.
2. Self denial. An amazing tool to heighten all aspects of life. Especially sex...
3. Make sure YOU'RE ready for this. It's an addictive world for all the right and wrong reasons.
1.surprise him in a sexy lingerie outfit, walk in in heels and the outfit...dont just walk right up to him and sit on it...let him look at you first. Maybe start picking stuff up in front of him or even startstroking yourself so that he imagines doing it himself. when you have his full attention walk over to him and push him into a seated position. stand over him (in front of his face) and move your thong over so that he can start eating you out. Tell him exactly what you want, they like that asseertion.
2.You could give him a massage and while he's on his stomach start massaging his hand...then as you lick his spine from bottom to top, slide his fingers that youve been massaging into your pants. Then turn him over and as you take off your underwear wrap it around the back of his neck to pull his head into position to please you.
3. Ride him backwards like a horse
4. Basically just graphically tell him where you want his hands, tongue, d***, etc. pull his body to you...dont wait for him.
5. To exert domination, always fun to use toys...use your vibrator and tell him what to do with it, and please him at the same time.
Thanks! These are great tips! I especially like number 2 :)
instead of asking him what to do, tell him, and don't ask him what he'd like, tell him what he's getting.. ever thought of tying him up? I don't mean heavily, just silk rope around his wrists or something, similar to holding his wrists but it then frees your hands up to do other stuff. its a lot about being able to get into a character where you are unafraid and confident. if you know he likes to be dominated a bit then all this should turn him on anyway. again depends how he feels about it but you could get a blindfold for him? anyway, that's just a few ideas to start you off with. just remember to have fun whatever you do :)
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Light domination: physical--wrestling, pinning, servile positions like kneeling. mental--obedience, rituals, light punishment
You could try wearing stockings to bed and then taking them off and tying his hands down with them and riding him. I am really turned-on by that. If he likes giving you oral, also try squatting over his face and having him eat you out while he's tied up.
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