My old girlfriend wanted me to try it and it did feel good, but made me feel a bit awkward haha. She was good at it tho. Id say when you are fingering him, where a rubber glove definately, and use a water based lubricant, as the tissue in there is SUPER sensitive and can be cut by nails and contract infection easily. When your are fingering, move your finger and curve it toward his front, roughly in the direction of the belly button. When you locte the prostate gland through the intestinal wall, it will feel like a hard object, but DO NOT attempt to grab it. Try to use the skin of your finger like the tip, to massage it GENTLY. Combined with vaginal or oral sex, it is sure to give your boyfriend one of the most intense orgasms he's ever had. This is not gay, if he is curious, it is a technique performed by women over thousands of years and it is medically proven to be healthy to regulate the prostate. (also known as prostate milking)Hope this helps, have fun and be safe!
I agree potential danger, although a finger tip is really fun when combined with other caress. If you are patient move his balls up and down very slowly. As a package or by pushing the skin. Start light and talk to him about finding the right pressure to apply. Similar to your discovery on a bicycle seat for example. Once you find the right spot be patient wait for the explosion. If you do tire a very light touch just be low the top will set him off.
Turn the table and have him find where light touch sets you off. Experimentation with almost tickling leads to some of the most erotic experiences.
I'm not big on fingering my husband so we started out with a small toy. He thought it was ok and his orgasm was bigger but not the big wow we has heard about. But when I blew him with the toy in him he had the biggest orgasm ever. He described it as eyes tiling back in his head amazing. After that we kept on exploring so we decided to try me fucking him with a strapon. Well he ended up having multiple orgasms. It was prety amazing to see. He had never had that happen before.
I have been dying to try this on my husband but he won't do it for fear of actually liking and feeling guilty about the taboo pleasures.. yeah I know he's a stick in the mud! now how do I get him to follow through?
Tell him he has to! my boyfriend was a bit iffy about it at first, but after a while he was the one asking me to do it and I did haha! he loved it. you only live once ;)
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Best done as a part of a blowjob. Take a look at my post here
"Describe the perfect blowjob?"
It's not magic and isn't much good alone but it can make a BJ an event to remember.
be CAREFUL of your nails, treat like you would like your g-spot massaged, listen to him and go by his moans... and use plenty of lube before going in for the plunge...
You could try having sex with him with a strapon dildo! It has always been a fantasy of mine, I am just to afraid to ask for it. I have had a girl finger me while giving me oral and it was the best ever.
That's disgusting
Not too sound too naive, but what is that?
It's the g-spot for guys. Usually called the a-spot. https://www.duanereade.com/health/images/HealthContent/english/LP2_18.jpg That's the location. It requires your finger up a guys butt to massage it.
Combine it with a blowjob, it feels even better.
Make sure that you have short nails or you're wearing medical gloves. If you'll ever scratch his prostate, he'll remember that pain for a next few years (and you'll remember his scream).
Don't do it everyday, it might be bad for his health.
Do it slowly and gently. If you can see that your guy feels really good, you might try to increase your speed.
Yeahh I did it with a blowjob, figured it was the 'done thing' ha
be gentle, if you do it to much or to often then he could get an infection or worse. def don't make it an every day occurence, if you want it to be good and less likely to injure then get one of the toys, they feel great and make your work much easier , good luck
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