True or False: To reject a man's sexual advances is to reject the man (in their mind)?

If a woman puts out right away, he'll lose respect for her and just use her for sex. If a woman turns down a man's sexual advances (mostly because he's too fast for her comfort), he'll feel rejected and move on. It's a no-win situation!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's bullsh*t! Never in all my years have I lost respect for a woman who shag'd with me for the simple fact that women don't have sex with just anyone. IF she chose me and not some other better looking guy, it's supposed to mean something positive between her and I...especially if I haven't paid her for it! I respect a woman who knows what she wants and skips the troublesome stuff, particularly if all she wants is just a sex partner. Come jump me, I will not disrespect you.

    On the otherhand, few things worse than a woman telling you off when she's eager to open her legs to someone else. It makes a man feel like committing mass murder on the female populace with a downright diabolic vengence, especially when it happens time and time again. Moving on is the best thing to do because it's what she wants. No woman I know of wants a man to harass her after she gave him the thumbs down, why antagonize her any further? Find someone else like her sister or something!

  • There is a range between the easy or no. Instead of thinking this is a no-win situation let us be solution oriented. If you and your guy are into each other but you are not ready yet, there is a difference between a flat rejection and a "I want you but just nor ready yet". A flat out rejection with no chance...well a guy has to move on. sorry we are sexual creatures. But a "I really want you but give me time" is not a rejection but delay. If he is into you the "win you over" thing is sort of a sexual challenge. make sense?

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. a guy who has an excuse to reject u, no matter what you do, doesn't like u, in the first place, & is just wasting your time. If he likes you & you have sex, hell be happy. If he's not crazy, & you reject him because its too soon, hell understand.

    the scenario, you resented is about a psychopath. not a guy you want to be with, or have sex with.

  • depending on the guy he may just move on, however, guys tend to want what they can't get. which means he might work that much harder to get you--to a point.

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  • its rejecting their manhood...and you never diss someone's hood yo. We gon ride up on yo block and we gon bust em shots out. WEST SIDE FOR LIFE. thug life, death row records, west coast, cali forn ya -ah, motherf***ing ballaz, west thugged out, iced out, rimz on them 85 drop top double R life of a motherf***ing outlaw baby, you know what time it is, bow down to the presence of a boss playa, makaveli the don, killuminati, out on bail, west sigh-ed, you know I'm living it.

  • When someone rejects someone's sexual advances, it means they're not comfortable with the sexual advances and/or they don't want to have sex. Other things depend on the situation, but if that's all we're talking about, making other assumptions is irrational.

    I don't do casual sex so I'm going to imagine this in a relationship situation. Let's say I want to have sex pretty early in the relationship and my girlfriend happens to want to, too. That's great, we have sex, nothing else changes. I don't respect her any less for wanting the same thing I do, that's stupid.

    Let's say I want to have sex pretty early in the relationship and she's not comfortable with it yet. That's FINE too, and we continue doing whatever we were doing :P I don't get what the issue is. Maybe it's not love if you're not understanding of what they're not ready to do.

  • True. If a woman gives in too easy there could be -no- respect for her left. It's obvious.

    If a man wants to pull her in bed too fast and gets rejected it's his own damn fault!

    Yes - his ego will be hurt, but he himself by making a move too quickly was expressing disrespect to her in the first place.. and doesn't really deserve to have "ego stroke"

    If you happen to be in these situations too often you must reevaluate that kind of guys you're dating and in what places you meet them.

  • True. I mean really, if a guy is into for sex he is not worth having.

  • i would say depends how you "reject" him

  • Depends on so many other factors

  • If a guy moves on because you rejected sex early on in the relationship, he didn't really want anything from you but the sex. Any relationship with that guy is a no win situation.

    • This!