Two submissive partners... Help?!

I love my man so so so much and we have a future planned together. Sex is great, but sometimes it can be frustrating because we both really prefer to be the submissive partner. This means that I'm usually the one who has to go out on a limb and cater to him being submissive. We've talked about it, but it never really seems to change. (I have actually told him that I want him to take the lead, etc.) I've tried just... not taking the lead and dropping huge hints, but then he gets confused and asks why I'm not "into it." Guys & girls- has this ever happened to you? Do you have any solutions that worked? Any suggestions would be great! Please make no mistake, this is not a deal breaker for me. I am in this for the long haul, "break up with him" is not the answer I need. Thanks!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • hey sounds like your in a conflicting situation. My suggestion is to try alternating and taking turns in taking the dominant role. I usually find when I need to 'convince' my partner into doing something or acting a certain way which isn't the norm for him, role playing works perfectly. Give him authoritive roles, something as simple as a cop uniform will have your man ordering and commanding your every move, it really works ;) Since relationships are all about the art of comprimise, hope that helps :)

  • Rather than just not taking the lead tell him to take the lead. Guys can be pretty thick, and if he isn't getting hints you need to spell it out for him. Good Luck (:

Most Helpful Guys

  • A lot of guys love been submissive when it comes to the bedroom. What I did was I took the idea of role playing an introduce it and got what I wanted. Now its exactly what I was hoping for in the end. You introduce that and always give him the role of authoritarian and it may workout for you in the end. if not you should get a lot of outfits...hahaha

  • "I would like us to take turns topping each other."

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