Ugly sex is hot?

[Anonymous]

Does anyone else get turned on by the idea of ugly sex? This is really weird logic here, but here's how I think about guys/attraction/sex appeal/desire. As far as long term relationships/marriage are concerned I'm attracted to more delicate, pretty boys, but when it comes to sex...something about sleeping with a really chubby, hairy, ugly old guy turns me on! I have no idea why, but I honestly don't get turned on by attractive males like I do ugly ones. Does anyone else feel this way?

[s3tupMayne]

It's not a surprise

Not all the time, but sometimes I feel the same way about the women I fantasize about. When I see someone extremely beautiful, I tend to admire their beauty a little bit and would want to be their partner. But if I see someone who is very womanly and also not necessarily well groomed or dressed, all I see is the fact that she's a woman and so my mind turns to sex relatively quickly

I think it's the way the imagination runs. I'm sure if you were actually getting it on with an attractive male (not necessarily a weak-but-attractive looking male, I mean more like a strong and manly guy who also takes care of himself a lot) you would be as turned on as if you were with an ugly / manly man

But yes, when someone is less dressed up, it's really easy to look at them and go "mmm sex" whether it's a guy or a girl lol

[Bruce]

very strange, indeed. You and the girl below, are both from the planet Earth, in the Milky Way galaxy, aren't you ?

Then you say below...that you would not ACT on it...This is not a real question...

You might try the planet kLINGON, ...you might have more luck there.

Turn left at Oriens Belt 15 light years I believe.

I was there on vacation in 2008.

Bruce

[Asker]

Just because I wouldn't act on it doesn't mean it's not a real fantasy. I don't have any intention of sleeping with random old men, but that doesn't mean that I don't watch older male porn. It's like rape fantasies...just because the person having them wouldn't want to be raped or rape doesn't mean they aren't real.

[Bruce]

I was only kidding with you...........and did not mean to insult you. Please, I was only tring to add some humor to your question........and I am sure many other feel the same way. Sorry if I offended you, it was not meant that way. Forgive me........had two glasses of red wine tonight.

[Asker]

You didn't offend me in the least, but I just don't want people to think I'm trolling or something. = )

[CristinaBacon7]

Ah, I'm so glad someone else feels this way. In truth, I'm simply not attracted to extremely good looking guys. Good to look at only. Not to get with or even marry. Like you said, it's like a rape fantasy. I fantasize a lot about a guy who looks like a grinch to just ravage me. Then again, if he doesn't have the personality, that totally kills it for me. Personality is an absolute requisite.

[Anonymous]

lol that's kinda weird! But hey do you, you're not hurting anyone! Personally I could not imagine myself having sex with an unattractive guy. I just wouldn't get turned on. I'm a visual person and I need something to work with. I prefer pretty boys and ruggedly handsome guys. Maybe it's because you think that an ugly guy will try harder in bed?

[Krista4eva]

you know, I heard this same thing on the love line radio show a while ago. I believe they said it is a representation of a father like figure that your attracted to. Does that ugly, hairy, etc... description apply to your father at all? Sounds kinda of freudian to me.

[Anonymous]

I like big, hairy guys. Not fat, but the right combination of chubby and muscular so that I feel safe in his arms. I like my big boys, especially if they have a big head to match. And it doesn't matter how big his penis is.

[jevaunit1]

wow, are we suppose to believe this is a real question...ok lets say that it is, why not let the world see who you are so all the chubby, ugly old guys can see you, so they can contact you.

[Asker]

Ummm it's definitely a real question. I wouldn't actually act on anything, but it is a true fantasy.

[jevaunit1]

O, well...damn I really don't know what to say...I have fantasies about old woman, helen thomas old, so I guess I'm being a hypocrite...man I love that old bitch :) lol

[goldenrain]

ahahahahahaha

NOOOOO

sry hun

[Asker]

Haha I'm aware I sound insane...oh well

[papasmurf]

Wow I'm really suprised at all the resentment, its a sexual prefrence...I think its cool that for once the hotties don't get all the praise, although I find it funny that they act like this when a group so often ignored gets a little love.. Why not act on it? its not like you're screwing giraffes or something...Bruce this is directed at you, calm down I'm sure you get enough attention anyways

[Gregs]

kudos for being honest, I'd say its not looks but attitude that attracts you tho. Most guys that need to spend 2 hours in front of the mirror before they go out usually have something the other males don't. I'm sure if the guy was ugly and a nerd for example, you would not go for him... or would you?

[SteelMagnum]

She wants da caveman treatment, diamond in da rough ;)

[Anonymous]

I feel the exact same way. It's a big go to fantasy. I think it has something to do with being overtaken by a beast.

[Anonymous]

And here I thought I was the only one. Not hairy guys though. But fluffy, chubby guys guys, or gruff old guys.

[Bruce]

Fluffy, chubby guys, or gruff old guys..............i don't know what to say............You are scaring me........I forgot to ask.......what planet did you say you were from ?

[Opinion Owner]

It's a fantasy. I don't think I'll act out on it (or at least for awhile LOL) I have many other fantasies though. :D

[Anonymous]

I think that's awesome. Funny, I actually feel the same way about gay acts. Good to know there are girls like this. Could you share some stats?

Height?

Age?

Weight?

Race?

[Bruce]

Holy shi&............NOW you're scaring me !

[Bruce]

She is 5'2" .........300 lbs.........65 years old and is from Outer Mongolia

[Opinion Owner]

By gay acts I mean me being on the female role, I would never perform the male role on any guy, or making out, even worse. Or let him go down on me, that's nasty, I would suck him, but he has to be old and ugly, preferable black. I think I would want that more than do an ugly woman. Of course hot girls are just the best thing in this world. When I get old I want to have an 18 years old with hot body sucking me.