It's okay as long as you BOTH go get tested for stds and show the other your paperwork, you both get the HPV vaccine, you use at least two forms of contraception, and you both agree to be absolutely monogamous.
Otherwise you absolutely always use condoms.
Thanks Belle, but I will never know if he is sleeping with someone else but I trust him not to. With regards to the contraceptive I have never used it because I've heard it makes a girl fat?
That's why you have a serious talk about it and if he can't agree to be monogamous then no condomless sex. That's absolutely not true about birth control. It MAY have that effect but you just go in and change pills or methods and you go back to normal. I've honestly only ever lost weight on birth control.
But if you on birth control can he ejaculate inside or not?
I prefer without. skin to skin is more pleasurable and it's more exciting knowing there is no barrier between us.
if you are on bc and he's clean... go for it
I started my bc today so I'll try it soon.. Thanks for advice :)
have fun ;)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Personally I like having sex without a condom because it does feel much better, but if you don't feel comfortable I wouldn't recommend having sex without one and if you do make sure he pulls out before he cums.
Thank you very much, it's noted :)
by the way are you on the pill?
Yea :) I'm on the pill, so I let my boyfriend cum inside of me. It's definitely safer with the pill if you want to go without a condom.
Are you on birth control? If not, probably not.
Have you both been tested for STD's? If not, no.
How long have you been dating? If this is a casual thing, then the answer is definitely not.
Yes, it feels better, but it is not worth the life you have ahead of you.
No I'm not on birth control yet, I've been tested and I'm clean but I've only ever had sex with condoms so I'm quite safe..
Has he also been tested? You know, men can make babies pretty much until they die, so him being older doesn't mean anything. Not using a condom is a very big step in your relationship. Don't just do it because he asked.
He is also clean but we will go for tests again, I think my biggest worry is falling pregnant so I'll have to see the gynae for birth control.. But I've heard even if a guy doesn't ejaculate inside the "precum" can still get a girl pregnant?
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