Upset if you didn't know she was a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Guys would you be upset if a girl wait until after you had slept with her to tell you that she was a virgin?

[taster]

Yeah..read your comment at the bottom..and I don't blame you...when I was your age I was very leary of that clingy thing you refer to ...because...I knew that I was not ready for marriage. I don't believe you are under any obligation to share that information in advance...any more that you are required to tell me all about the last dozen lovers you had...oh...just so you know...altho I don't dislike or disrespect virgins, I have successfully avoided them for my entire life...

[Belgie]

Yeah I would, a little. Because my efforts with a virgin would be much different than if I thought she knew what she was doing.

With a virgin, I'd take more time, ease her into it more, make damn sure she's had one or two orgasms from foreplay alone, all that sort of stuff. Virgins have a hard enough time their first time, without a guy just assuming she's going to carry her half of the deed.

[Anonymous]

I think some guys might be upset but I understand why the girl might not tell because some guys feel guilty taking a girl's virginity if they don't really like her a lot, either that or they don't want to deal with the possible emotional baggage and tie she might put on them. One time I met this jerk and he told me that he didn't want to take my virginity but that if I lose it we should have sex (I was still a virgin back then btu I never exactly took him up on the offer)

[Asker]

yeah the reason I ask is because I don't want guys to feel like I'm going to be clingy towards them afterward, I know they're scared of that, I'd want to tell them because it's not like I know what I'm doing and don't want to get bad reviews lol.

[kurozogo]

Not upset , but I would like to know before , I would not feel nice about hurting her during her first time .

[sisterray]

If she was a virgin she would be bleeding all over the covers.

[Anonymous]

Not upset, but rather, disappointed.

[Anonymous]

My previous girlfriend seemed upset with me. Then she turned sympathetic.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be upset, but I'd be kind of bummed that I didn't get to enjoy the mental pleasure of knowing I was taking your virginity during the sex.