Vagina pain because of sexual frustration?

[Anonymous]

Since I finished my period I have been extremely horny. Extremely. I can't even think anymore. I feel a constant heat inside my vagina, like between the inner lips, I'm constantly getting very wet and sometimes I feel as if the muscles inside my vagina contract and it's very uncomfortable. I also feel like little twinges of sharp pain inside my vagina that are very annoying. I don't have any diseases and my doctor said the pain is normal. I'm also a virgin and I'm kind of afraid of touching myself down there. Touching my clit isn't enough anymore. I feel like I need something to get inside me. But I'm afraid of pain. What can I do?

[TheBootyChest]

Not to give "a guy"answer, but if you feel you need something inside you, perhaps your body is saying it's time. I "obviously", don't have a vagina so I can't pretend to fully understand what it is your experiencing or going through. I have however experienced "groin pains" that will leave a guy in pain almost doubled over. Feels like the testicles are tired in a huge knot. If you are ready to take the next step, I would say to find someone who will take it very easy and let you be in control the first few times so you can ease your self into it and on to it. Some women have a lot of pain associated with losing their virginity while other women, even on this site, have said they had next to no pain. Just listen to YOUR body, follow YOUR heart, and don't jump into anything you might regret later down the road because you were "in heat". Sorry if that sounds cruel but you are for all intensive purposes "in heat". We have all been there. Just be safe and have fun no matter what you do!

[kholland65]

You just need an orgasm. Sometimes going too long without orgasm, or simply experiencing too much sexual tension, can quite literally cause the muscles to become very tight and almost painful. Your body needs a release which orgasm provides. It will likely cause the muscles down there to all relax and you'll feel much better.

[AllAboutTheX]

You may have what they call CPP (Cronic pelvic pain)
The muscles in your pelvic wall contracted at some point and have now become inflamed and it causes pains like you described. Playing with your vagina won't make it worse and the only way you will hurt yourself inside is if you put something inside that will cut the soft tissue.
Push in on your pelvic area right above the bone and see if it hurts... if it does, you might want to see your doctor about CPP, it isn't sexual and you won't get in trouble for it... it is just the muscles in your lower extremities are stuck in a tightened state and they can give you a needle that will release it.

[VaniSlyRogue]

its Normal Completely. its your body saying: Your fertuile completely. The urges can be strong like what your haveing right now. it is sexual fustration. i once got so horny i cried because it started to hurt because i couldnt find a realse. its your body going into heat correct. just like animals humans do go into heat females more so then males, but once a month for a week men will produce more seman then usual because theyve gone into heat. its normal and it happens to all of us. :)

[Brookelynn122]

Do whatever feels good and you're comfortable with. There's no rules with masturbation, but if you feel pain, you should probably stop. Just go slow, see how your body responds. If you really don't want anything internal, you could try an electric toothbrush (bristles away!) on your clit. Works wonders if you don't want to splurge on a toy. :) Best of luck!

[kambo_trick3y]

Good God girl you need some d***.

[Dionysos]

For the pain, lots of folks recommend a brisk walk. From what I've heard, it works.

I'd suggest using your fingers at first. Touching yourself won't hurt you, and you can stretch things out a bit easier with fingers than you can with other objects. There are all kinds of small finger shaped (and small phallus shaped) objects you can play around with if you're not comfortable using your fingers. Just make sure they're clean, sturdy (don't want to lose parts inside) and have no sharp bits on em.

Since you've been having periods and haven't backed up, you'll be able to fit objects of a certain size inside past your hymen where the blood is coming out. Go up in size until the stretching is uncomfortable but not painful. Stay there or work upwards slowly. Lots of lube.

[Joedog]

Wait! Wait! Wait! I am on my way!

Damn! Too far away...

Get a decent vibrator or dildo rather than give it to just any man. You might regret giving yourself to a man, but later on when you meet the real guy for you, no guy can be jealous of a dildo or vibrator. Less emotional problems then!

[Walrus_au]

start with something thin and just experiment. I recommend proper sex toys as they are safer.

Doing these things yourself gives you far more control over things, you know you will stop if it starts to hurt, you don't have to worry about trusting someone else to listen to you.

[country16]

just touch your self it helps I used to get them but as soon as I started masturbating it all went away... i'm a virgin to!

[Dragan]

I think your body and soul seeks sexual pleasure. Find a guy who will solve the problem. Until then masturbation will help as well.

[Peewee96]

Try and play with your self

[halilmeral]

add me please