Very tight vagina?

I tried having sex with girlfriend for the first time and when i was very hard.. I couldn't insert my penis in her vagina.. It was very very tight, i thought she is not aroused enough so i again stimulated it.. And she got more wet but.. Again i couldn't insert into her... What should I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Take your time relax enjoy each other dont rush to her pussy there's plenty more to try. When you get to her pussy dont just poke away caress the out side and her clit and slowly work your way in with fingers. Remember you have two hands and a mouth.
    Then slowly try penatration.
    Good luck

  • You should use a penis health crème for skin moisturization. This will cut down on friction and lead to a much easier entry. Just make sure you use one that has Vitamin E and shea butter in it. I use one and it has helped a lot for a similar problem. You can get on online. Hope this helps.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just take it slow, and she needs to relax too. Press it against her and start thrusting just a little bit, even if it's not going in right away. It was the same for me when I was a virgin (and now still actually in the beginning of sex every time) but this worked (and works) for us.

  • It could be vaginismus, which sounds scary but it is just an inability to relax your vaginal muscles due to physical or psychological stress. Working on the relevant factor would help her relax and be at ease.

    source: experience

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  • ... was she a virgin?

    • Also "tight" and "loose" do not exist. According to medical research, they do not. Look it up. Everyone needs to look it up in terms of medical terms and not society's

    • I don't know if she is a virgin or not... How can I know that

    • Are you asking that sarcastically or is that an actual question?

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  • You can try lube. Make it even easier to get in there.

  • Foreplay

    • Our foreplay was almost 30 mins long at the beginning.. Then i again stimulated her when I found it hard to go in...

  • Start with a finger, then 2... then just insert the tip of your dick! Her vagina will open up slowly for you! ;)