WOAH, WOAH, WOAH. Okay, if your girlfriend cares that much about keeping her virginity, that must means she wants to be somewhat pure, correct? So, try to explain to her that sodomy is actually more frowned down upon than cherry popping as far as keeping pure...
wait...she's already done it? Oh, in that case, go ahead and f*** her in the ass. There won't be any poop, (just go before), and it'll be SO F***ING TIGHT, it'll feel amazing to you. Do you know how many guys DREAM their girlfriend would one day consider anal? Consider yourself lucky.
I dream about that too, but what happens if that's all she ever wants. Going to be surprises inside sometimes, I betcha. That would put me off it, after a while.
Oh yeah. Lubricant helps. That's almost a must. It will help everyone involved.
Bad news is that although you're not f***ing her up the twat, she's still not a virgin once you plow her nether region. At any rate, enjoy it. You have a couple of options only. Why would she want your d1ck in her at all? You pi$s out of it. See what I mean? Get over yourself. Our crotches are multi purpose and you have to get used to it. The a$$ is full of lots of sensitive nerve endings and can be a great sexual outlet. What about yourself. You have a c0ck and you want to put it in her ... mouth? Get real and stop being so self serving.
Tell her you don't want to lol but she is also not a virgin either it's called anal SEX sorry but she lost her virginity the second a guys penis went into her hole lol
You're the most dumb person ever, and actually you are gay for refusing to have anal sex with a GIRL.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If a guy wants to have anal sex with his girlfriend this doesn't make him gay. What makes a person gay is wanting to have romantic and sexual relationships with other guys, not wanting to engage in a particular kind of sex with someone of the opposite sex. Anal sex is often associated with gay men, but remember, everyone, gay or straight, male or female has an anus! Also keep in mind that gay men also participate in blow jobs.
Anyways, it seems she is experienced enough to clean herself so poop isn't an issue. However, it doesn't change the fact that you should probably wear a condom and get lube.
Also tell your girlfriend she isn't a virgin anymore. Sexual intercourse involves the penetration of the vagina by the penis or by intercourse (as anal or oral intercourse) that does not involve penetration of the vagina by the penis. Therefore they are not virgins!
I went the first six months with a girl -- anal only. She thought she was a virgin -- but so what? Am I going to argue philosophical with her -- or plow her ass? One thing is true. When we finally went vag, it was good. Hell, it was great. But very soon it was going up her ass again. I think the virgin thing was just a distraction. She just wanted anal, and found a way to get it. Not that I am complaining. SO NICE to totally relax about birth control and pound away.
Anal sex isn't for everone. If ya don't want to do it...don't. Tell your girlfriend you don't care for it. Hand-jobs won't take her virginity. And its only gay if you're having anal sex with another guy.
Of course rimming is an option for him too. That's get your tongue right in there and lick that a$$ instead of sticking your d1ck in there. I hope that's a better idea I love it actually.
Soo, it's 4 months later. How did you guys resolve this?
Anal sex isn't gay. It's just sex. Gay peeps have oral sex too, does that make oral gay? Nope.
He wouldn't do it because of things that come out of a woman's crotch. Ew gross! She p1sses out of there. She BLEEDS out of there. EEEEEWWWW! LOL It sounds so much like this guy isn't ready for sex.
Well tell her how you feel and with hope she will understand ... Good luck I hope you work it out
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