I made my boyfriend wait 8 months before we had sex, and the first time we did was so quick.
But, it's because he was so incredibly turned on, ready, and willing to have sex lol. You know, he was like waiting for this very moment, so all the tension was built up and it was like Heyy, it's over? But we just laughed it off.
So I can imagine if you made him stop masturbating for a while the tension.
I say he should masturbate some in order to not have like this "build up" of sorts.
He is a virgin so like me, He was probably overwhelmed by the situation.. "Omg this girl is awesome holy sh*t holy sh*t holy sh*t CRAP"
I hope you didn't make him feel too bad about it, just give him some time and ;) practice and his stamina should improve.
He was really turned on... or he's premature...
Hmm true that. thanks for your advice ^_^
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Virgin guys tend to not last long since it's too overwhelming for them and they're not used to it. Over time they get better at holding it in.
guys get really turned on by the foreplay...and if done right, they shouldn't last too long, don't be too hard on him...its hard for all guys to last long around pretty girls
Thanx for you advice I just didn't understand since he masturbates a lot and can actually last long. is there any way I can help him last long?
Your welcome...and yes there is a way he can last longer...the reason it takes guys longer to masturbate than when with a girl is because all the motivation they have is their hand.....and what they see...but can't touch. Masturbation is purely the thoughts that go on in a mans brain....it can't be compared to sex. To make your boyfriend last longer, you can ask him to masturbate and ejaculate once before intercourse....and once he is aroused again it will be harder for him to come the second time
Another way to make sex more interesting and last longer is if you prolong intercourse and do a little foreplay that doesn't include his penis (but make sure his penis doesn't go flat, and also doesn't look like its going to burst, somewhere in the middle) and when you do decide its time for intercourse, tell him to tell you when he's close to cumming, that way you can stop for a while and continue again when its "safe" Remember: the longer the sex lasts the better it feels, for both people
Does he masturbate a lot? That could be the problem. He needs to learn self control.
He used to a lot like 5 times a day but I made him stop its been a month or 2
5 times a day? Holy crap! He really needs to learn how to control himself! Are you sure he stoped? No wonder he can't last long. He might need some profesional help. Average person can last about 10 minutes.
I know right lol and he did stop he kinda lives with me so I know
not masturbating for 2 months? his balls must have been bursting to bang XD. kinda logical he came that quick.
everybodys different, some last longer than others. I guess you could take it as a complement.. I think lol.
Just be patient and give him time.. practice makes perfect.
This is the type of stuff I worry about. You didn't make him feel bad did you?
ooohhh yeahhhh
It's because he was a virgin. My first time was pretty much the same way. Make him put on a condom next time, and he'll be fine.
Yes. He was aroused beyond sanity showering with and entering you. I have been around and if I had done without for maybe a month, I would too.
He must have been close to cumming before even put his penis in you.
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