Virgin fantasizing about sex. Normal?

I want to have sex, I fantasize about it regularly, lately having sex with the guy I'm texting. I imagine him naked even having my first time with him, even giving him a blowjob. I'm 27, do I need to have sex soon, right? I am not waiting to get married or keeping virgin for any religious belief.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Hey, it sounds completely normal, whether you're virgin or not, this happens to pretty much everyone :)

    You don't "have" to have sex soon just because you're 27, but do you want to? If you're not waiting for anything in particular, you'll probably enjoy it! Just do whatever you feel comfortable doing, and if you're with a guy, it's okay to tell him you're nervous or you haven't had sex before. If he's not a douche (and I hope he's not), he'll understand and you'll probably have a better time.

  • sounds like what some people do but don't get your hopes up. the first time is a pain.
    you should do it but with someone that will take care of you

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, that's normal for most people. Hormones can make people feel that way and there's nothing wrong with that. However, just because you're 27 doesn't mean you "have" to have sex soon. If you aren't ready then you aren't ready and you shouldn't try to rush it. If you do want to have sex though then go for it, it's ultimately your decision.

  • it is totally normal. don't worry!
    but Always keep in mind that you don't need to lose your virginity because you think you are late. it wil happen, don't force it :)

    ( sorry if my English is not correct )

  • I'm a virgin and I fantasize about it. I think it's ohkay to do that. You don't have to have sex right now but if you want to yeah go for it.

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  • That is definitely normal

  • In what world is that not normal? It's normal to the bone. Just because you're a virgin, doesn't mean you're not allowed to have urges.

  • Of course it's normal
    one can only fantasize about something one hasn't experienced before

  • Absolutely normal

  • Well it's your hormones... And by the way your first time would be painful... So don't expect it be like a porn video... LOL

  • Don't give up. fight the food fight

  • It's normal, I'm a virgin and fantasize it.

  • thats normal, i feel the same, i am a virgin and imagine doing stuff with the girl i like

  • ı think it s also late to be a virgin. u are 27 and ı wonder what are u waiting. one day u will say why i didn t do it before.

    • I haven't had the chance. My ex didn't want to have sex after him I haven't date, I am no approachable. Is not like I don't have needs, I do but even I am not waiting for the prince charming I won't have sex with some strange dude I met.. Or should I? After typing it doesn't sound that bad.