Kiss? YES
Foreplay? oral probably NOT but fingering YES
I said no for oral just because I have some romantic expectations in my first time with my boyfriend. We've done plenty of foreplay already - dry humping, grinding and some groping here and there (breast, my crotch, my bare hip, penty of butt). I'm fine with that but I'd prefer to have complete sex at first rather than "spoil" it with some oral and nothing more. I want to go all out, I guess. I believe is has to do with the fact that I associate full-on nudity with sex. I'm fine with my boyfriend touching my private areas even though we've not had sex yet but I'd prefer leaving some to the imagination for our first time together. So to answer your question, I'd say that my boyfriend can touch my body anywhere in any way he wants before we have sex. That being said, I'll keep my bra and undies on for as long as we don't have sex. We're really close to it now, so him seeing me in a bikini and playing with me in that attire will be the most he'll get until sex.
While I'm not waiting until marriage I know people who are and the general theory is that waiting is supposed to be to keep it sacred and special. It's not a game. It's not a round of "how far can I go before it's considered sex?" "How close can I get but still be 'pure'?".
One of my guy friends who's waiting put it this way- I don't play the toe the line game with girls because that's just making a game out of sex and demeaning it. Not to mention thinking about my future wife doing the same thing really hurts, can't she just wait? I'm here, I'm waiting, can't she wait for me, too?
Then there are other points of view how it's just sex (penile and vaginal penetration), other things are okay. Everyone has their own opinion.
Your guy friend sounds awesome;) I think e same way too:) Question Asker: I would go as far as kissing that's it. Saving myself for my future husband. A lot of people think foreplay is fine cause they aren't having sex but still can enjoy something sexual without having to feel guilty and no ones virginity is lost. I personally think that's selfish and irresponsible.
I'm in my twenties, and I'm still a virgin. I love kissing, but that's as far as it goes. Everything else is being saved for my future husband. I've been very up front about that with guys I've dated, and none of them have had a problem with the fact that I'm waiting.
I believe in waiting but since I have absolutely experience in anything I don't know how far I'd go in a given situation. I'd hope I'd be strong enough to resist temptation. I have no problem with kissing but honestly the thought of sticking my finger or tongue up a vagina doesn't appeal to me. To me as soon as sex is attached then that's where you stop. Oral sex is still sexual. A girl can blow 50 guys but still be considered a virgin? What sense does that make? Same for guys.
Kiss yes, that is not off limits to me, but I would not do any of the Fore Play you mentioned. I think those are forms of sex(hence being called Oral sex and Manuel sex). I know I might be a little bit high strung on this but that's how I am.
hey man I don't think of you as high strung or anything like that. that's how you choose to live your life and that's fine. its not liike a big deal anyway you know.
great response Asker :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'd kiss, but I wouldn't engage in oral unless I knew I was going to marry that person. I don't want to do that with anyone besides my future hubby.
Nope, I'm waiting for the whole nine yards.
Yes, I would like kiss and foreplay, with following sex. I don't want wait to marriage, I want it immediately!
I'm a pure virgin for religious reasons & I'm comfortable with it :)
Sweet a 24 year old girl virgin. Why do you have to live in Egypt though? lol. :-)
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honestlyi think it depends on how you feel at the time, I personally am not ready for anything and I'm 16, I guess its the way I've been brought up...
Yeah I understand and respect your decision. I just always get confused when people say that I want to stay pure until I meet the right person and get married. and I never know if its like just intercourse or all sexual acts. I just want to verify. not saying I would ever do anything ya know. and by the way I'm not talking about people who just say their not ready but those who say they want to wait.
yeh I know what you mean, its not like I haven't masturbated but I'm not sure I want to get intimit with a guy cos they might want sex, or end up hurting me and I'm really not in the mood for that...
yeah I got you. you gotta just do what's best for you you know and not listen to what other people say. I respect people who make there own decisions and stick to what's right for them. just keep doing what your doing and live your life how you wnat to with no regrets either
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