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"Wanna come over and watch a movie?"

Why do guys even bother saying that you're going to watch movies, when you both know it's all set up to lead to sex? I'm getting sick of actually going over to hang out with them and watch a movie. I mean every time this happens: we pick out a good movie i get all excited to see it we watch it in their bedroom.. in their "big comfy bed" they insist on rubbing their hands all over me the ENTIRE time Then, they try to make out and go even further all while I'm TRYING to enjoy a good movie. this is getting very annoying. Why can't they straight up say "wanna come over & @#!*% ?" cause "wanna come over and watch a movie?" can be misleading.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, to be totally honest, if you were in my bed I wouldn't give a s**t about the plot of any movie after the first 30 seconds... I definitely get your frustration though... Maybe some guys just don't want to be so direct and say "Do you want to have sex?" I've never been that blunt... Maybe these guys think it's an effective segue? Being misled does suck though..MAybe you could tell him that if he's good you'll reward him after the credits lol...

    Though since you are one of the hottest girls I've seen in a while, maybe have an intermission if it's a 4 hour movie ha ha

  • Can you be honest about it next time you get an invite? Say that okay, and that you'd like to watch the movie with them, but you don't want it to be simply a makeout session?

    But I mean, a beautiful girl like you, in a guy's bed... umm, yeah, I bet it is extremely difficult to actually concentrate on the movie. He probably isn't even aware that there is a television in the room.

    • Lol that's very sweet of you! but I want to be noticed for more than just looks for once.

    • I know... I know you wanted more than that. I really think you should say something up front -- and be prepared to say once that you're going to leave, and then actually leave if it continues.

Most Helpful Girls

  • MOST GUYS WON'T COME OUT AND JUST SAY HEY, YA WANNA F*** BECAUSE MOST GIRLS WON'T GO FOR THAT LOL HE MAY ACTUALLY HAVE INTENTIONS OF WATCHING A MOVIE WITH YOU, AND ONCE YOU'RE THERE JUST HAVE THE URGE TO F*** YOU-SHOULD BE TAKEN AS A COMPLIMENT. BUT THEN YOU HAVE THOSE GUYS THAT SAY THAT TO JUST GET YOU OVER THERE. IF YOU WANNA GO OVER TO JUST WATCH A MOVIE, MAKE IT CLEAR TO HIM BEFORE HAND THAT YOU'RE JUST COMING OVER TO WATCH A MOVIE AND HANG OUT. IF YOU WANNA WATCH THE MOVIE INSTEAD OF HAVIN SEX, THEN DON'T HAVE SEX. IT'S NOT LIKE YOU CAN'T SAY NO.

    • Cruise controlll

    • i do say no :) haha I just don't like how they're expecting it even when I tell them before hand.. they still try it's annnoying!

    • IT IS ANNOYING SOMETIMES, BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIME THEY JUST THINK YOU'RE PLAYIN HARD TO GET AND THINK THEY STILL HAVE A CHANCE. IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT THOUGH, IT'S JUST GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED INTO THEIR BRAIN TO PROCREATE. JUST HUMAN NATURE! :) LOL

  • I have no idea why everyone thinks it is NORMAL to say one thing when you know you want something entirely different. So this explains why guys assume all girls lie play games & always have an ulterior motive. This is insane & you all are like yup gotta lie or you don't get laid. Seriously learning disabled imo.

    • You are very stereotypical

  • As a general rule, 'watching a movie' is almost NEVER just watching a movie. XD

    • Well that's not true at all. I have many female friends who I do not have sex with. You should stop generalizing, there are decent dudes out here

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  • lol! so true!

  • LOL. I dunno, tradition. Me and my ex had a good away around it, though. We'd do all the dirty stuff first, and then watch the movie. Originally we wanted to wait till the movie was over, but there was like, something stopping us, hahah.

    • lolololol tradition :-)

    • Haha, it seems to be though.

    • Actually, for another answer, what you should do is when they say 'wanna come over and watch a movie', say 'No, but do you wanna meet up and f***?' Hahaha.

  • Well we tend to think that most girls won't come over if we just come out and say "want to come over and f***." It's a calculated move that we do in order to try and get with the girl

    • haha yeah true.. I don't know it's just annoying when the girl actually just wanted to come over and hang out with the guy she likes and watch a movie together. I mean a little kissing is fine, but do they really have to pressure them to go all the way everytime?

    • i mean some guys are just like that. Personally I don't try to go al lthe way with a girl the first time I ask her to come over and hang out. But every guy is different

  • she probably wouldn't come over if he just asked for sex

    • Wanna come over and watch a movie means the same though.. so you mine as well lol

    • if it means the same thing, it doesn't matter which he says.

  • Lol so true. It's like "come over and watch a movie?" is code for "wanna come over and get it on?"

    • haha AGREED!

  • Wow sounds like you get around.

    • hahaha. naw. I just somehow know the routine. I stop it when I don't want itttt

  • Never been in this situation. But this is a weak excuse for sex. I would just come out and say it. Not "oh babe you wanna watch this movie in my room on my bed"? Lol so weak.

    • You sound a little bitter. By the way don't generalize by saying "guys" just say the guys you were involved with. You seem to attract a lot of no goods. I wonder why?

    • doood. I know. haha

    • Go for the good guys. We care

  • Im sorry, but I find your complaint very hilarious. Why? Not trying to be a mean guy, nor make moves (since I already have a fiance), but two things. 1. We're guys. Yes, we get horny. But I will tell you one thing. Know the difference between love and lust IF these guys are boyfriends. Other than that, you walk into what they want. 2. Look at you. You're blazingly hot! I know the 'Oh no, I'm ugly, etc...' No matter what you tell the public, you know that you have the looks. Think of it this way, though. It's your body, not theirs. You can say no...that or kick and scream while running out of the door. Lmao.

  • if we say "come over and f***". your probably more likely to not come over (this is assuming you don't want to do it)...so we use the excuse of "lets watch a movie THEN try and make out etc..plus in my opinion it sounds less creepy

    • thats not less creepy that's much worse. oh sorry forget- lying is really less creepy yea...

    • so you would like it if I just went up to you and said "lets f***". then how come we have tons of people on here who complain about the pervs?

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