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Wanna try anal sex? First read this?
Anonymous
It is necessary to care for the anus, anal canal, and rectum if they are involved in sexual activity. Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) can be transmitted through anal sex and can affect the anus itself. And anal cancer is associated with STDs in men and women. Damage to the internal and external skin and tissue of the anus jeopardizes health, causes pain, and impairs function. The risk for anal cancer is a concern for men and women who have anal sex. It can produce malignant tumors inside and outside the anal canal. Many people with early anal cancer have no symptoms. The major risk factor for anal cancer is infection with HPV. Many LGBT practitioners are advising routine anal Pap smears to detect the early changes that might indicate a risk of developing anal cancer. Recently, infection with a strain of potentially deadly bacteria (called methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus or MRSA) has been reported in men who have sex with men (MSM). These bacteria can cause life-threatening infections that are resistant to antibiotic treatment. Some forms of MRSA live in the anal area and can be passed between sexual partners. An anal fissure is a small tear in the skin and tissue of the anus. It can bleed, itch, and become extremely sore, making bowel movement, sitting, and sex painful. Some heal within a couple of weeks, especially if therapeutic cream, warm baths, and stool softeners are used. Others require surgical removal of the tear, which is exacerbated by sphincter movement, and the underlying scar tissue. The bleeding that occurs with a tear increases the risk for STDs. It is possible to acquire an STD without penetration. Oral-to-anal contact, whether from kissing or from oral contact with fingers that have been touching the anus can spread bacteria and cause infection. Even the use of sex toys may transmit certain diseases.
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According to researchers from the London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine, young men aren't always concerned about getting consent to perform anal sex with female partners, normalizing the idea that coercion and pain are normal.
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 26I've tired it with my wife and I didn't like it all that much
Just do it
I love fucking girls in the ass and I'm not scared of seeing a little dookie on my dick because I am used to it
Yes I have and I enjoy it a lot
I've tried anal sex with 6-7 different female partners, One issue is I'm a bit bigger than average which seems to part of the problem. We have read up on the subject an have tried all the suggestions. The furthest I ever got was about a inch past the head of my cock. An yes discussed it before hand so no surprise of hey let me tap that booty g/f. Foreplay before hand , finger insertion prior , plenty of lube for both of us , several of them were quite intoxicated just prior 😂 . But hey at least they attempted it 🤷♂️. Maybe one day it will happen
It's kind of fucked up that you'd laugh at someone for having issues with anal. It's almost like you're glad she had those issues. Like you feel spiteful that she didn't know the risks you did and is now suffering as a result. It's really weird of you.
My loves to get fucked in the ass.
"Many women fear that anal sex will cause hemorrhoids, fissures or tears. Some even fear that they may become incontinent and spend the rest of their lives in adult diapers. Pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to your anus or rectum. And as long as your partner does not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to your rectum."
--Hilda Hutcherson, M. D.
Let's stick to facts, QA. If you don't want to have anal sex, then don't. But don't try to spoil it for others with inaccurate information.
A: My medical opinion is that you shouldn't do this. Admittedly, quite a lot of couples sometimes go in for that type of sex, but they are mainly middle-aged and older people. For a young woman, the colossal drawback of rectal sex is that it hurts really, really badly! The reason for this is quite simple. The diameter of your rectal opening is much less than the diameter of a guy's penis. Therefore, if your boyfriend tries to insert it into your anus, it will be pretty agonising for you. You may wonder why the girls in the p*rn movies are able to have 'bottom sex' without apparent difficulty. The reason is simple. These actresses have practised it over a period of several years, during which they gradually become more and more dilated. So their anal openings, which were doubtless tight when they first started, have gradually become more loose, until they are in most cases actually gaping. This is not very good for them, since it means that they will probably leak faecal matter.
This is not very good for them, since it means that they will probably leak faecal matter at inconvenient moments, throughout their lives. Doubtless, your boyfriend could force his way in if you wanted to let him. But it would be an unpleasant sensation for you, rather than a pleasurable one. Also, in early attempts at anal penetration, the young woman usually suffers small cuts, plus bleeding and bruising. That is not too nice for her. Another disadvantage is that rectal sex is a fairly good way of passing on certain infections, notably gonorrhoea (the clap), chlamydia and HIV. Admittedly, it is unlikely that your boyfriend has any of these, assuming that he really is a virgin, as he claims.
You may be asking yourself why I say that it is younger women who suffer a lot of pain if someone tries to penetrate them anally. The reason is this. Women who are in their 30s and 40s have often had children. And the process of childbirth makes the muscles and ligaments considerably looser in that area of the body. Therefore, it is often much easier to push things into the rectum. So it is an undeniable fact that middle-aged couples can often have rectal sex reasonably comfortably.
Anal intercourse carries the most risk than any other form of sexual activity. The vagina has natural lubrication, but the anus doesn't, so it's more likely to tear. Viruses can enter through those tears, so the chance of contracting STDs is much higher with anal sex than with vaginal sex. Also, your anus just has tons of bacteria in it, as you can imagine. You should never have vaginal sex right after anal sex because you can risk dangerous vaginal infections if bacteria from your anus is introduced to your vagina. The reason anal sex can hurt is because the sphincter is a muscle that stays very tight to hold your stool in, and you're stretching that muscle. That muscle can stretch out causing incontinence problems if you're having a lot of anal sex over a long period of time. If you're concerned about your anal health, you can talk to your gynecologist about it. They can test for STDs and check for any trauma wounds. But the main thing is, if it hurts don't do it!
f you want to continue, try using more lube and see if that makes it more comfortable. Dr. Iris Orbuch is the director of the Advanced Gynecologic Laparoscopy Center and the co-director of gynecologic robotic surgery at Beth Israel Hospital in New York City.