Wanting to kiss during oral sex/bj/hj, is there an emotional connection?

I was with a guy a few nights ago who I'm not sure what we have exactly, we do fool around but I do not have feelings for him and I'm not sure how he feels about me... We were making out and I don't really feel my heart racing at all like I do when I make out with someone I have feelings for, Its just like nothing happens.. but I started to give him a handjob and he wanted to kiss while I was doing it, but I didn't want to... it kind of turned me off when he tried to kiss me so I just gave him head but he still wanted to kiss so he asked me to kiss him and I said no.. he still finished and everything but it was just a little awkward, does he want more than a friends with benefits kind of thing here or is this just natural for him to want to kiss me without emotions attached? it was a turn off for me as I do not feel like that towards him, and I've told him this before.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm the kind of person who enjoys the kissing. It gets ke going and keeps things connected. It could be emotional if he has feelings or it could be just physical because he enjoys kissing... But if he likes you kissing is not going to be the only thing he will try to do... I find holding my hand or stroking my hair more intimate than kissing.

  • well me and this guy was a friends with benefits and we kissed all the time, but to guys kissing is a turn on so it could be that your just a good kisser.

Most Helpful Guy

  • he seems to like you, if it was friends with ben he would of accepted the head.

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