Watching her play with herself?

Hey guys and girls do you like to watch your significant other/ wife/ girlfriend /f*** buddy play with herself. Of course by this I mean masturbate while you watch. if so why is it so arousing for you? do you like if she uses a toy or just her fingers or anything else? is there a specific experience you've had where someone did this for you? if so what was it like? being graphic in description is fine as well. (feel free to answer about male sexual partners as well)
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  • Absolutely. Female masturbation is like my favorite thing in the world!

    I recently read a book that shed some light on why it arouses me so much. The book is called Male Sexuality: Why women don't understand it (and men don't either) by Michael Bader. The major theme from the book is that

    "People get sexually aroused when their imaginations find a way to overcome the psychological roadblocks to pleasure. The value of this approach lies not only in it's ability to explain the meaning of someone's particular fantasies and behavior s but to also reveal his or her most important emotional conflicts."

    Our sexual preferences and fantasies are actually solutions to the problems that impede us from getting sexually aroused. One of these problems is something the books calls "pathological beliefs". These are negative beliefs that become ingrained deeply in our psyche that have a chilling effect on our libido.

    In my (and many other guys') case, I had a deeply held pathological belief that women don't enjoy sex. Sex was something women didn't find enjoyable and they surrender it grudgingly to men to shut us up and keep us happy. It's totally irrational, of course, but you'd be surprised how many men are affected by this stuff.

    Anyway, that belief makes it easy to see why I find female masturbation so damn arousing. When a woman masturbates she is enjoying sexual pleasure simply for it's own sake. For one thing there is no man to please so she's not doing it out of obligation. And of course she finds the experience intensely satisfying. If she didn't, why would she bother in the first place? It is essentially proof positive that girls are horny, sexual creatures just like us guys.

    When I found out girls masturbated it was like manna from heaven. It made me feel all warm and hopeful inside. Still does. If I'm ever depressed I can remember that there are probably millions of girls around the world playing with themselves at this very second and it makes me feel better, like there's something very right with the world. Weird, eh?

    Other than that it's just so feminine and sexy. There's nothing more beautiful than a masturbating woman. It's like art come to life. They're so radiant and majestic. It's truly a beautiful thing in and of itself.

    Lastly, I highly recommend the book, it's a very fascinating read.

    • i really liked this response, it got me thinking and I figured out what my pathological thing is and it all makes sense now hahah so thank you! I just might go check out that book

    • Not a problem! Thanks for best answer, by the way. It's much appreciated.

    • not a problem my good sir I have to go about correcting my pathological thing a majig lol

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  • I love watching my girlfriend touch herself. its a turn on because it shows she is horny and wants to be pleased. the fact that she is horny enough to do it herself makes me want to be as horny as her. I also think her vagina is beautiful and I just like looking at it, seeing it drip and glisen, seeing her touch her clit and how she does it so I can do it the same way later, seeing her spread her lips a little so I can see inside, watching it conform to the sides of her fingers while she slides them in. hearing the squishing sounds when she does it fast and she's all wet. watching her lick her fingers to lube them up or lick her juices off them. seeing her face react differnetly to the different places she touches and the different ways she touches them. hearing her moan and move her hips and arch her back. watching her come drip out and slide down her butt. she turns me on so much when she does this

    • wow hahaha sounds like both you and her are very enthused, do you like to sit up close when she does it since you described such detail and do you like when she does it spontaneously?

    • I like to be within arms distance when she does it, so if she needs any assistance I will be able to provide it quickly. I like to have the lights on as well. I love walking into the room after I get out of the shower or home from work and seeing her naked on the bed, legs slightly apart with her knees bent, lightly sliding her fingers up and down her slit and inviting me to come over to the bed with her.

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  • Sometimes it can be hot. Especially if we don't have the strength at the time to f***.

  • I think everyone would, its the main reason p*rn is so popular.
    The arousement comes from her enjoying herself doing sexual things, its gigantic visual stimulation.
    Even though i could sit back patiently it makes me want to join in and give her a show as well.
    It would be even hotter if she followed my directions on what to do.

  • I absolutely LOVE to watch my girl pleasure herself. The faces she makes, the sounds she makes, the way she touches herself- it really gets me going. Nothing is hotter than watching it, but I can never seem to let her finish on her own.

    • ahahaha how do you usually "intervene"? lol

    • with my mouth XD

    • oh wow lucky girl hahaha do you think you could restrain yourself if she wanted to finish her self off in front of you?

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  • Love it.

    Fingers are probably better, just in case the viberator might do a better job than him.

  • I would say absolutely yes...toys, fingers, its beautiful watching a woman have an orgasm or many orgasms...I like it even on her period...AWESOME!

    • really? wow so do you go out of your way when she is pn her period? or is it more like if she wants it you don't mind even if she is on her period?

    • I love it when a woman enjoys sex and or masturbation during her period...It actually produces more intense orgasms and relieves cramps...periods even end sooner! I enjoy women anytime!

    • no wayyyyyy it relieves cramps?! I need to be doing this lol cus mine are killer :(

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  • Love it even more when she does it where she can get caugjt

  • I will admit that I like watching a woman have pleasure. The more happy she is, the more happy I am. I see her reactions, and I want her to enjoy whatever she's enjoying... forever. I've seen too much p*rn that I've gotten to the point where that's all I want - whether she's free to do it herself or she's tied up and someone else pleasures her.

  • I'm a huge fan! But not just to watch. I'll be stroking myself while it's going on too. I love to hear her get more and more excited and I can feel myself get harder and harder as she does until he's finally cumming and I blast all over the place (or her!). Definitely fun!

    • you should make it like a contest who ever comes first has to do whatever the other one wants for the rest of the night, it would be fun lol

  • Ya I really like it. I'm not really sure why, I guess after starting out with phonesex a lot then moving on to regular sex, it was a real turn on to see what she's like by herself.

    • hahahah so before you could only imagine what she did to herself while you and her h ad phone sex and then you actually got to see it for yourself lol