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We had sex and now he won't text me back?
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I have been texting this guy an he's a older then me for over a year we have been talking about having sex for a long time now. I was a virgin and finally we had sex he wasn't a virgin. I liked it and I thought he did too because after he even texted me saying we should have sex again. But now its been 5 days since we had sex and he won't text me back. He last texted me the morning after having sex but hasn't since. I really like him and I just don't know what I did to make him not even talk to me anymore. I'm really upset !
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The thing is that he is best friends with my older brother so he's always over our house. No one knows that we ever text let alone have sex.
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I know he prob did use me but why would he say lets have sex again the next morning if he didn't want too? Can some guys answer this question.
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So after I posted this question he did text me and we talked a little bit but after about 4 days of texting he stopped and then I found out he changed his number. But he hasn't told me he changed his number so I haven't talked to him. I guess we won't
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 13This guy is totally using you. He probably just wanted to have sex with you becasue maybe you were nice looking but mostly becasue you made yourself available. That's all he wants is the sex, not a relationship. When he said he wanted to do it again, that probably meant..."I'll call you next time I'm bored and want sex" I mean he could even have other girls he's seeing, you never know what goes on behind closed doors. But once you give a guy sex...the chase is pretty much over. He may not want anything to do with you now, your old news.
the next time he calls you
he'll probably want more
I hope so
...and that's all he'll want
never have sex with guys that don't love you they will use you and that's what he did he got what he wanted so he's left you. I HATE guys like that. girl get some pay back, tell him you want him again and when y'all get done having sex be like OK get off me you sucked and walk out of he's life (use him)
That can lead to rape
No it doesn't hell be like wtf
Uh no dumb kid
I'm not a kid, I'm older then you
So what what I'm saying is true it can lead to rape
He is right...shes younger (under 18) if she says get off me...its considered rape
It won't lead to rape.. he will be astonished , but raping? no way but what is certain is that he will hate her and be so resentful.. that he can start any gossip or something.. you never now with guys like that, they usually have such a huge ego..