We have sex after every date - warning sign or not?

[Anonymous]

I had a one night with this guy , however, we kept in contact after, we text everyday, nothing sexual, just about our days etc. We admitted to each other that we like each other. He post things on my Facebook about jokes we have etc. We've gone put on two dates so far, dinner, movie and drinks, however after every date it ends with me going back to his place and having sex with him. I mean, like, I don't feel guilty about it, I'm having fun and we get on great. However, what are the chances that he may just be using me for sex?

[heavensgift2girls]

Just because a guy enjoys having sex, does not mean that he is just using you for sex. Are you using him just for sex? I doubt it. People have different sexual needs, and different views on sex. We have to find someone that we are sexually compatible with.

If a guy likes a girl, and she is willing to have sex with him, it doesn't make sense for him not to sleep with her. You both want it, and you are both having fun. Just enjoy it, and give the relationship a chance to unfold. It is way to early in the relationship to determine if he is just in it for sex.

[kheserthorpe]

'Using' can be stretched to cover any interaction. You use him to meet your needs for fun, companionship, emotional connection, etc.

He seems to like you for sex and for company. I don't see any red flags here. Sex is a part of why you're together, otherwise you would just be friends.

[myty420]

who the f*** knows...guys are hot one minute and cold the next...they want perfection but they lack in it that it is so hard for me to even consider them serious because most of the time they are not they just want to play and it's up to the girl to say "LISTEN UP BITCH AND SIT THE F*** DOWN...IF YOU EVEN THINK ABOUT F***ING ANOTHER GIRL I'M GOING TO BITCH SLAP THAT HOE SO FAR SHE'LL MAKE IT TO MARS WITHIN TWO MINUTES"

[taster]

LOL! yeah...If a guy doesn't take a female seriously...still want sex all the time...if a guy DOES take a female seriously...still want sex all the time...in fact the amount of sex a guy wants is a horrible barometer of the seriousness of his intentions..QA..are you listening?

[myty420]

if you are confused about it you should dump him now because most likely that confusion will come to kick you in the f***ing ass..what I mean is that if you give off a "vibe" that you are weary and you have already had sex with him he is going to look at you like you are stupid because how could you sleep with him if you don't trust him. But it's like he should ask himself a question before he beds down like "do I really deserve to be f***ed by this person?" shame that most guys have ego's!

[myty420]

if you are just looking for oppinions to validate your new found love...well then congratulations?!

[myty420]

ignore the last two posts...if he took you on a date first you have nothing to worry about...if he slept with you and thnfelt that he owed you something thn you should leave him alone.

[myty420]

but thn that does not say much for the guy who will take you on a date sleep with you and than dump youanyways maybe due to poor performance on your part but apparently your don't seem to be having any problems with him feeding you back your text messages so that's good right?

[Anonymous]

i personally would not have sex that fast, but the fact that he's contacting you and trying to make more dates and says he liked you says you got off lucky this time...he probably actually does like you. phew.

[bassman]

Why are you worried about be used for sex? Should he be worried you're using him for sex also?

[kentpaul]

I suppose that's always a risk... why not tell him (if that's what you want) that you'll want some kind of commitment if he wants to have sex again?

[psm357]

I doubt so. It seems he is into you.

[WoIIie]

There's some chemistry there but it's too hard to tell. You went along with it so if you have any doubts consider that most guys go full throttle when you give the green light. The fact he wants sez isn't really a telltale sign of anything.

[Anonymous]

Of course! That is what relationships are primarily about!