ok. . . ummm . . . it shocks me that you are between 18 and 24 and are asking this question!
BUT . . . I would strongly recommend you and your boyfriend go to the docs, or family planning clinic, share or Brooke etc, together, getting a pregnancy test done and STI tests done and get on some birth control before you do fall pregnant because, sweetie, it is likely to happen, if it hasn't already.
I completely understand the liking him coming inside you, I also love the feeling and sensations. I am on the implant and would strongly recommend it, its much more effective than the pill, the pill is 1 in every 100 people get pregnant, and that is providing you take it properly, every day, vomiting will stop it working, some antibiotics will stop it working etc etc, the implant is LESS than one in every 2000 people get pregnant on it, it lasts for 3 years, insertion doesn't hurt and little side effects, they say bleeding can be a problem, hasn't been for me - used to have irregular, very painful periods, now extremely light spotting for 2/3 days regularly each month, no pain. the worst thing I had with it was the bruise after insertion. b4 this me and my boyfriend would use a condom EVERY time, and I will admit, I definately prefer sex without a condom, but if I wasn't on other BC I would go back to using them, absolutely no doubt!
2 of my cousins ( just turned 16 and 17) now have it and also have no probs whatsoever, they didn't even bruise with it, they have it now because their boyfriends wouldn't wear condoms, and they didn't argue, and now both have children, one got pregnant the day b4 her 15th birthday - although when she gave birth the docs said they think she could have actually been further along than she thought. and the other got pregnant at 16, had her little boy at 17. they don't regret having their children, they are beautiful and they love them very much, but they do regret not waiting and not using condoms.
please think about this and get some form of BC, implant or coil are the best, most reliable and you will still get the sensation of him coming inside you. although these do NOT protect against STI's.1 0 0 0ok are you seriously in this age range 18-24? What kind of question is this for someone your age? by now you should know that you should always use protection not just to avoid pregnancy but to prevent STDs as well... and you are saying that you don't want to get pregnant and still is letting him come on you with no protection at all? BOTH of you are really immature still who don't know the consequences of sex yet! go get educated first! he should know that he could get you pregnant but he is being stupid and ignorant! Anyways, if you don't want to get pregnant or if this is only what worries you, then you should at least consider taking the pill - birth control pill. But then, this won't protect you from any venereal diseases (STDs), so it's up to you to... it's your health and it's you life so you go figure...
0 0 0 0If you're not pregnant, the reason is: the chances are slim at any time, you are only fertile at certain points, and certain behaviors will kill your and his fertility. But if you continue, this streak of good luck will end at some point, trust me. So if you like that feeling, I suggest you arm yourself with something. Birth control. And then some knowledge of your fertility cycle and your own body. Otherwise, well, you'll have a bouncing baby in no time.
I mean, there are so many products geared toward this: spermicides, HBC, the Shot, female condoms, male condoms, Nuva Ring, come on! Pick one! Use it!
And get tested while you are at it. You don't know what he might have, no matter what.0 0 0 0
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2% of the male population do not have sperm, and so can not get a girl pregnent. That's only 2% though, he's not likely to be in that percentage.
He could also be wearing underwear that keeps his testicals close to his body, which kills sperm because it's too hot. He might also drink tons of coca-cola, which has been proven to kill off sperm.
Try morning after pills and while you're at it get on regular birth control too, the sooner the better.0 0 0 0And maybe when you least expect it you'll find out that you're pregnant! That's how it normally happens. When women get pregnant it usually catches them by surprise and I suspect that's what will happen to you.
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12 8Take the pill and you will still get the feeling. It's not bad. Just also make sure that he is only sleeping with you.
0 0 0 0Wow. Your consequences of 'should I? shouldn't I?' is minimum 18 years of raising a child, more than likely by yourself. Strap it on. You also have HIV, etc to worry about. But if you truly don't want a baby now, or can't take care of one yet, use protection! We don't need any more of our 'unwanted' kids in foster homes.
0 0 0 0Honestly, are you serious? You say that you're between 18 and 24, and you have to ask a question like this? You should know all about the mechanisms of sex and the risk of disease and pregnancy. If you love the feeling of him coming inside of you so much, then use birth control. It's safe, it's reliable, and it significantly reduces the rate of pregnancy. I don't think the world could handle your offspring.
0 0 0 0HAHAH!! That just made my day :) No offense, anonymous user!
then get on birth control! yeah you;re gonna end up getting pregnant sooner or later just because you are not pregnant yet doesn't mean he is shooting blanks.
0 0 0 0oh the implant take 1 week to kick in btw.
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