Weird question: vagina tightening up after inactivity? read deatils?

[Bigclit]

I always hear that the "tightness" of the vagina remains the same regardless of activeness sex or lack of. I hadn't had sex is 5-6 months; I met this guy and we had sex. When he and I had sex it was so hard for him to penetrate me; we tried at least 5 times for him to enter me. And yes I was aroused and turned on by him. And when he did enter me it was painful; he wasn't rough and he took his time. And the next time we had sex it was definitely easier and pleasurable. So my question is does inactive sex tighten up the vagina if not then how do you explain my experience?

[capturemyheartnow]

Vagina becomes loose only during sex. Thereafter it tightens up. Loose vagina is a result of she getting aroused during sex. If she is aroused in a good positive way , her vagina expands and her vaginal muscles become broader and deeper. The cervix tends to stretch backwards into the uterus. Usually , the vagina does not become loose on a permanent basis. But there are occasions when the muscles such as Bulbocavernous , Transverse Perineal , and Spincter are not healthy enough.

[capturemyheartnow]

Thanks for the MHO.

[America1st]

I can't pass this up... Your user name declares something and maybe it got in the way! Okay, I'm done. On a serious note, you probably weren't as excited as you felt you were. I only say that because the second time everything was fine. Maybe it was the position you were in that caused all the problems. The vagina doesn't change due to lack of usage just like it doesn't change size after giving birth. If anything could change the size, it would be having a baby.

[Bigclit]

Lol... trust me i was relaxed and very lubricated I was there. we did a lot of kissing touching fingering etc. it honestly felt like I was losing my virginity again. And studies say the vagina doesn't tighten up it remains the same but this experience i don't know not having sex for 5-6 month it's a bit challenging when I do and a week later it's easier for him to penetrate. that's why I'm questioning that theory

[America1st]

I wish I could help you. It's strange, but if everything is okay now, that's great!

[Anonymous]

i don't think the vagina tightens up... the entrance of your vagina tightens up but the actual vagina doesn't it stays the same unless you gave birth and getting older changes the vagina. hope i helped

[Anonymous]

Nothing tightens or loosens the vagina. The vagina doesn't work that way. You probably had a combination of inadequate lubrication and mild vaginismus caused by nervousness.

[Bigclit]

I was relaxed and lubricated trust me. plus the next we had sex it was great no problems what so ever

[Opinion Owner]

Well, then it was just vaginismus for no good reason. But it certainly wasn't your vagina getting tighter, because they don't work that way.

[usefulidiot]

i think the vagina does tighten up if you don't have sex

[Dinotracks]

Have you been doing exercises? My mom once told me you can practice with raw eggs. Like cracking eggs inside until you can make an omelet.

Then you move onto boiled eggs.

[Bigclit]

no i don't workout

[Dinotracks]

Maybe you've been having night spasms. It happens when you masturbate too much.

[Bigclit]

lol okay

[Shevy]

Yes I believe so.

[worldscolide]

it's been my experience that it can happen. it honestly depends on the situation and how much lube is used lol.

[Tezzy69]

This can happen, try few minutes of foreplay. x

[Bigclit]

we did.. not what I was looking for.

[maxcates]

You're probably just nervous

[Bigclit]

i wasn't nervous i said i was relaxed and lubricated. we had tons of foreplay. he just didn't force himself in my vagina... but that's not the point my point is does inactivity of sex tighten up the vagina? studies say no but i experienced this so are the studies wrong?

[maxcates]

They might be, I wouldn't really know.

[Aanimal4u]

Yes it does, your vagina has muscles and I suggest starting Kegel exercises (I hope you know what they are, if not, please ask me and I will be happy to teach you). You must also be relaxed and comfortable with the guy. Dilation is key too

[Bigclit]

I don't think i need to do kegels he says I'm pretty tight in that area but the point of me asking this question was to make a point because people and study say that the vagina goes back to its original size and it doesn't tighten up but because I haven't had sex for 6 months i was tightened up and a week later we had sex and it wasn't difficult for him to enter me

[Aanimal4u]

Yes, the vagina will go back to it's original size, unless she continuously does extreme gaping

[masterkamasutra]

yes it can bit a bit.

[Pizzalover101]

Usely they say your walls become thinner in side so it's less filling depending on your health an weight an age

[QueNine]

I'm in a LDR and whenever my girlfriend and I have sex again for the first time in months it can be a bit tougher/tighter than usual but not typically to the point of pain. Granted we do a fair bit of foreplay and are messing around for a good 30-60 min drive home from the Airport.

If you don't masturbate via penetration much I'd say it's safe to assume it's just tightness from inactivity.

[Bigclit]

that wasn't my question though.. my question was if the vagina remains the same size why did i tighten up studies say otherwise "Women's vaginas don't change in size or shape based on how much or how little sex they've had or the size of their partner's penis," says Debby Herbenick, Ph. D. "Vaginas are flexible and return to their original size."

[QueNine]

Size doesn't change, only 2 major changes are due to childbirth (temporary) and age (lose elasticity). long dry spells just mean you need more foreplay beforehand, if it remains an issue take a look into any supplements or birth control you use, depo provera has issues with loss of elasticity.

[Bigclit]

the theory is that the vagina doesn't change... I'm asking if that theory is wrong with my experience. I was very lubricated and relaxed we had tons of foreplay trust i know i was there you lol.. we had sex but it was challenging a week later we had sex and no problems at all. if the vagina doesn't tighten up wth then i felt like i was losing my virginity again

[Anonymous]

it does tighten it up, and I can tell you it feels Good when it's tight

[Bigclit]

so then what's with people say the vagina remains the same size it doesn't tighten up or tightness isn't real?

[Opinion Owner]

lies

[Bigclit]

lol okay.