What is the best position when you lose your virginity?

i hear most guys like girls to be on top, but I don't think I could do that, it'd be like impaling myself! id want to be on the bottom missionary position, at first at least. is there a different position that hurts less? how EXACTLY does it feel to lose it? do you feel the pain the next day? like does it hurt to sit or go to the bathroom?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • We tried with me on top first but it wasn't going in great for me, so we changed to missionary. It was painful because it was sensitive at the time due to the fact I was on my period. But it did go smoothly since I was already wet down there. Just relax and don't think too much about it. After the first time it gets better since that pain factor is no longer there.

  • Your first time doesn't have to be painful! If you have lots of foreplay then there shouldn't be a problem at all no matter how big the guy is so just relax and take it easy and just go with it. Missionary is a good place to start :) You probably will feel it the next day but don't worry too much about that, it'll just feel a little sore

    • does foreplay really help that much?

    • yeah. helps everything go 'easier'

    • yeah honestly it helps so much, it kind of eases things for you and you'll be well prepared and lubricated :) thank you for BA :)

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  • When I lost my virginity we started off in missionary then went to me being on top. It was a little painful but totally worth it. The next day you will be sore so just take it easy. It gets better as time goes on

Most Helpful Guys

  • I like the idea of a girl being on top but if she needed help I could hold onto her waist and pull her down gently while watching her face for ques when to push harder or to hold back.

    • I got a down vote when the person underneath me was so rude got a plus vote? lame

  • id say missionary, you'll be comfy on your back and relax as he enters you

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  • Would think any position that works would be fine

  • When I lost mine she was on top.

  • Just get the 1st time out of the way, then you can enjoy it! lol

  • give me few seconds while I lose my virginty, I swear I will come back with an answer

  • I was on top my first time. I guess it's better because you can control how far you go/how fast but really it doesn't matter because in any position the guy should slow down/not go as deep if it's painful. And the sex itself wasn't painful at all, just awkward, but the next day it was REALLY sore to be honest, like walking and yes sitting. But it was just one or two days so no big deal.

  • Doggie.. and the best place is in the forest!

    • the forest?

  • impale yourself upon 6 incher, woman!