In my experience a lot of independent, strong and successful women love it when I grab the back of their heads and force it down on my cock. I once gave a girl a pot to barf in and I fucked her throat for about an hour. Not only did she love it but she calls me everyday to try and get more. I moved and she drives 4 hours just for me to ATM her all night cause no one else knows how she likes it and she's too embarrassed to ever ask for anything like this.
She also said that she likes me so much because I treat her like a person and not a piece of meat, this is actually the most common thing that girls say to me and it's even been told to me by girls who I will only fuck in the ass and throat, not because there is anything wrong with their vaginas but just because.
The first step to get a girl to deep throat your **** is to make her know that you care about her. This is also the first step to anal and pretty much any other kind of freaky sex stuff. It's as simple as giving time and interest, people, all people in fact, really just want to be heard and understood. As far as the mechanics, lay her down with her back on the bed and her head hanging off one side to straighten the throat and just slide it in. It's not difficult to get it in if you can keep her from turning her head but she's going to feel like she's getting waterboarded so take it easy and listen to her signals for when she needs to breathe.
After a while you will be able to try other positions. For my last girlfriend, coming in from the side worked best for her. Picture you're sitting on the couch and she's on the couch next to you on her knees and she's coming at your wang chung from the side. She would go deep and then need that push from my hand to get it back inside her throat.
Funny thing is that once you train a girl to do this, she will thank you for it. Because even if she doesn't stay with you girls know that once they can do this they go up about a million rungs on the "Good at Sex Ladder. " Cause like every guy who has experienced it knows, the girl who can deep throat your jack johnson will be in your head for the rest of your life.
Put your hand on the back of her head and ever so gently just push it down on your cock. Don't force her by any means. Let her trust you and get used to swallowing that thing. Gradually start pushing a bit more and more. Once she starts to accept more of you push down harder and thrust your hips into her mouth. This will force it deep into her throat and the experience will get her used to it. Trust me, this is a good way to train this girl.
No This is a good way to lose her trust and ever giving you head. How about asking.What the hell ever happened to consent?
I puked on a guy who did this "gentle" head push. Don't listen to this F***head. What are we, f***ing dogs? I hope if you try this guy's advice, your girl chomps on your junk. Because I would.
Wimp, a real girl would tough it out for her man.
It's really just about time and patience. Let her go at her own pace, and encourage her when she's doing well. Encourage her to see how far she can go, and how long she can hold her head there, but don't hold it for her unless she asks. The hardest part for her will probably be overcoming her fear, so make sure she knows she's in control over the situation. After that it's just about gradually working her way up. Just remember to be patient, this isn't something that most people can naturally do, and you have to practice to be good the same way someone would have to practice any other skill. You could ask her to lay face up on the bed with her head slightly hanging off the side so that her neck can be straight, and have her guide your hips so that she can still set her own pace. They sell oral anesthetic spray and flavored lube that can help numb her gag reflex while she is learning. P. S. all these people pitching a fit cause of what your girlfriend wants to learn for you, and all you did was ask how to make it easier for her need to step off and realize that what two (or more) consenting adults do in the bedroom is none of their business, and shaming people for their kinks shows more about who you are as a person than it does about the person with the kink.
I would have been happy to help you with this if you had worded this question in a different way and had a different attitude towards it. Next time word it like... my girlfriend wants to please me by deepthroating but struggles trying to, how can I help her? Then maybe you won't be looked upon like an asshole.. just a tip.
You know, that's a good answer! I agree!
Um first of all women are not dogs you don't train us. Second is shouldn't you be happy and appreciate the fact that she is willing to try to shove that thing in her mouth and still being a good sport. I mean have some respect and treat her like a human being instead of some pet or something.
Yeah I know but it's fun to hold her head down.
Oh really well I bet she'd have a lot of laughs while holding ur head in a pile of crap cause that's just where you belong ; )
Lol good one haha . TAKE THAT Questionasker
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If we were animals or pets,I could give you an answer,but we're humans with emotions and individual boundaries.You don't "train" human beings and if we do,your parents didn't train you right
If she doesn't want to deep throat,she won't do it right
if I were her, and you were treating me that way, I'd bite your dick off, go to the kitchen, and put it down the garbage disposal.
Then I'd go brush my teeth to get rid of the taste.
Ivarei gets props yo.
Too bad you can't handle it, crybaby.
You sound like that same anonymous douche that posts all these retarded sexist questions. Get a life, seriously.
to answer your question, get some throat numbing spray or gel from and adult novelty store.
"Like a good girl". I can see why more than half, oh hell everyone seems to hate your question. Truth is, dirty sex is fine, but respect comes first. Since you lack the latter, there's no real reason for her to ever perform deepthroat.
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