What do I do when I am getting fingered?

My ex fingered me the other day after I slept at his house. I had never been fingered before. I didn't know how to act when he was doing it. All I could think to do was just to keep kissing him while he was doing it so I wasn't just laying there.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You did just great by keeping up the kissing and just laying there and letting him continue finger you. Next time you might thrust a little into his fingers so that he knows you're enjoying it. Any movement like that will be a turn on for a guy. You also can start tongue kissing him when he's doing that because it'll raise the passion between you two. So between thrusting into him and intensifying the kissing, you can turn an ordinary fingering into a very hot make out session where you are both totally turned on. Eventually, you can reach down and fondle him so that's he's hard all the while the other stuff is still going on, or instead let this lead to him going down on you because you'll enjoy that much more plus he needs to learn to do that to you.

  • Well, if you have never been fingered before, does that include masturbation? You should probably know what you like and what feels good, so find ways to show him when you like what he is doing.

    Once he is on the right track, all you really have to do is sit back and enjoy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If it's enjoyable just show him how much you enjoy it:) I typically will grab any surface, or anything around me I can reach, really hard and hold onto it. My guy typically does oral & fingering at the same time though, so I don't have the option to kiss him. Just do what feels right to you. Hope this helps:)

  • there's nothing wrong with what you did (the kissing him thing). next time just do the same or you could even pleasure him as well (i.e. with your hands). just do whatever makes you feel comfortable :)

  • Just don't be afraid to express the intensity as it arises. go for it, the more you enjoy the more he will enjoy watching you.

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  • What you did was fine. You can just lay there especially the more into it you get. Usually at first it kissing is fine but when it gets more intense the guys moves and the girl just enjoys it.

  • Just relax and enjoy. As time goes on you guys will develop more activity to do while he is doing that. Feels really good doesn't it?

  • Well, is it enjoyable for you? If it is, why not show it.

  • You did fine. Relax and enjoy.

  • awesome, he must have felt a million dollars, with you kissing him like that he would of felt he was making you feel great