What do experienced guys think of virgins?

[Anonymous]

I'm just wondering right do they care?

[Anonymous]

From a girls perspective - You guys act like just because a girl is a virgin she would be completely clueless about sex! You would have "teach" her or "train" her - she is not a dog! I am 23 and I lost my virginity a few months ago! I didn't tell my boyfriend that I was a virgin - and everything went just fine! Sex is everywhere in this society - just because you haven't actually had sex doesn't mean you don't know how things are supposed go! Even if a girl hasn't had sex - she has most likely masturbated, watched porn, or done other sexually things other than intercourse!

Just wanted to put in my 2cents! Just because a girl is a virgin - doesn't mean she is clueless! Give us a little credit guys!

[Jessica32]

Haha, yea, I was a natural at all things sexual ;) My first time giving head was his best ever lol. But you gotta admit, lots of girls, even experienced, are stupid. I hate girls haha. They are all uptight and selfish and just. STUPID. Haha. I could vent a lot more, but I won't. :)

[asdfjkl]

Amen. Hahaha

[archer86]

Knowledge of performing sex isn't it. The problem is getting a virgin to commit within a short time span. Older men want women to come strong or not at all. Waiting 2 years to finally get results is not what older men want to do. At least men my age that is. But we also don't want something overnight either. Well, meaningful overnight relationships are ok.

[Opinion Owner]

And that's fine! Men at your age most likely won't be going out with anyone who is virgin - if you do either she has been waiting a very long time, or you are dating someone way too young!! The girl asking the question is in the 18-24 year old range - probably closer to 18 than 24! Their is nothing wrong with her being a virgin at that age - and the guys in that age range should be willing to wait a little while! I'm not saying 2 years - but maybe a couple months!

[Opinion Owner]

Besides my response was mostly geared toward the guys who think being with a virgin is too much work because she wouldn't know what she is doing - because he would have to "train" and "teach" her!!! In most cases, that just isn't true!! Guys like that are just ignorant and lazy!! They aren't worth dating anyway! Now if you are with a girl who wants to wait til marriage - that's a whole other issue!

[Tizen]

It depends on the guy. That's like asking, "What do experienced guys think of the color orange".

Sorry, no easy answer for that. I can relay my personal answer, though. I wouldn't mind a virgin. As an experienced guy, it is not physically enjoyable to be with a virgin, but at least I can "train" the virgin and show her what I like. Plus, it's nice for me to know that she hasn't been with another guy. Not a huge concern for diseases and things like that. But I also worry about an older girl that would be a virgin. Like, "what's wrong with her? ". So. Ya. It all comes down to personal opinion. That's mine.

[archer86]

There is no easy answer to this one. But in general terms I will say the older the man is, the less tolerance for virginity. I'm 38 now and I would not have the patience to deal with virgins. I went thru that mess back in my teens, not much fun going thru that again. Older men like mature experience women because grownups don't like to beat around the bush so to speak. In addition, the chances of finding virgins close to our age is next to impossible. So if you look at one way, virgins are way too young for us. Finally, a person in their late 30's who are virgins are looked upon as odd and strange.

[Just-A-Random-Guy]

I wouldn't care.

[Cyberdog900]

We're excited to see how tight it is, plus, it's a territorial thing. Like a little Mount Everest. ;)

[ReallyEvilCanine]

Not much, for the most part, unless they're really religious, uptight or masochists, most guys don't care. I've done the virgin thing twice and both times -- despite eager partners -- the sex was "meh." Having to teach your partner how to do everything is appealing to control freaks. An experienced woman knows what she likes and is able to tell her partner exactly what she wants because she's discovered it already. She also has a good idea about general male anatomy.

Virgins have too many hang-ups, from their own bodies to various acts. They tend to have idealized expectations which can rarely be met. Sex is not a time for thinking; it's a time to just "go with the flow", and virgins have no flow (save for the bleeding ripped hymen).

[Jessica32]

So is 20 sexual partners too much, if the girl isn't loose (2 fingers), and never had any STDs? Because I'm pretty much a pro, but sometimes people freak out when I tell them. And I don't think there's anything wrong with it if I'm clean, not pregnant lol, and not loose or "beat up" haha

[archer86]

No such thing as too much sex or too many partners.