What do guys really notice while having sex?

[Starry-eyed]

I've heard that guys are too into the moment to notice something we as girls are trying to hide. Don't get me wrong. I light having the light on - or at least some light. But still in the back of my mind I think. Do I look sexy enough - do I look fat - OMG! What is he looking at? Yes, yes guys - laugh if you will. I'm not shallow like that but those thoughts pop in my head once in a while - especially on a "fat day". Hehehe. And girls - what do you guys do to get your mind off of those nasty thoughts and feel comfortable being completely naked in front of your guy?

[archer86]

Are you serious? Men are not paying attention to any sort of physical flaws that you might have during sex. The fact that a man is already having sex with you means he doesn't care. If a man ever walks out on a woman during sex because you butt needs slimming or you are not sexy enough, you let other men know so we can shoot him!

Superstrength said it best that a man who's paying attention should focus on some reaction by the woman. If all she's doing is just laying there, not moaning, faking or nothing else, then she's a major turnoff. Sex for me is ok but the women must give some sort of return to show she really wants to do this and wants to be with the man.

Hope my wisdom helps.

[jkremis23]

This dude is serious... Don't think he's kidding about the "so we can shoot him" part haha. he doesn't deserve his dick if he does that

[Married-in-PA]

It depends. But it's safe to say that 90% of men are looking at three things: your boobs, your butt, and your Virgina. (got me? ) Yeah.

Here's a big news flash for ya. There are A LOT of guys like me, that happen to like a girl with a little bit of a swing on her back porch. You know, some meat in the seat. See, a guy like me wants to know that if I bump into a girl, will she bump back. Call me crazy, but there's nothing sexier than a lady's curves.

[anonymousashley]

To get my mind off of things like that, I concentrate on the more important things that are going on. And I'll say one thing: A lot of times I'll be with a guy who has flaws that might not necessarily be the sexiest things, but because I like them, they become cute, or I don't even notice them. I'd like to think that guys get the same way. When you're with someone, and you're really enjoying it, you're not thinking OMG look at those stretch marks.

[Queen-Naiomi]

I just remind myself that he loves me for me. That and he can usually sense when I feel like that and he'll kiss down the length of my body or rub me and that makes me feel like I' a sexy beast.

Just remember, if he's having sex with you, then he thinks you are the sexiest girl ever.

[Superstrength79]

The only thing I really notice is if she is not doing anything. If I have to do all of the work it's a turn-off, and I'd rather just leave at that point. What do I look at, to see how she is responding to things. I might be checking out her body if it was our first time having sex, but after that, probably not so much.

[lovebird01]

You always notice the girl's reaction to what you are doing with her. Other than that, I wouldn't worry about how you look. Remember, nobody is perfect. And the guy wouldn't be having sex with you, if he didn't find your body attractive in the first place.

[johnsmith2116]

Usually, a guy is too busy enjoying himself to notice much of anything.

Also, if he didn't think she was attractive to begin with, he wouldn't be intimate with her.

[lolfreddy]

I usually focus on how good my penis feels inside you. And of course the sounds the girl makes. When a guy is horny they lose a lot of their "thinking" power and basically run on instinct. Hope that helps ya :)

[Caliguy88]

I’m just looking at my dick going in and out of you are trying to get a peek at your butthole. Lol.