What do guys want to hear in bed?

[Anonymous]

I love being verbal while having sex, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I'm getting better at being more verbal, I say things like "omg"--"ooo right there"--"oh god your **** feels so good"--"mmm yeah" or "that feels amazing" and he loves all of that, the more verbal I am the more verbal he is, which is a huge turn on. so what things could I say? also I like to send sexy texts to him every once in a while just to spice things up, if you have ideas on different things I could send to him I would love to hear them.

[Anonymous]

Say stuff like this when it happens

"Stroke it!"

"Get real deep"

"F%*#K! it"

"Tear that a$$ up"

"Drill it deep"

"Dam it feels so big"

"omg! I am about to cum"

"Spread it!"

"Its so freakin deep"



He will be turned on more and go faster most likely after saying a lot of these statements ;)

[Asker]

some of those are pretty hot. thank you.

[quovadis]

It all depends on his preferences, but some men like...

"punish me"

"do me like you want"

"I'm your dirty little ho"

"you own that pu**y"

"f*ck that pu**y"

I think you get the picture, if he likes dirty talk, watch some p*rno's, those girls will give you tons of ideas. Good luck. He's a lucky guy.

[Asker]

he's never heard me cuss except once, but usually I don't, sometimes during sex, he tells me that he wants to f*** me, I guess I just don't know how he would react if I only cussed in bed. but we do watch p*rn together, so I think I get an idea of some things to say, thank you :)

[quovadis]

a lot of sex is mental. If you have a relationship with him, and you both actually like each other. You can say more romantic, but yet still hot statements like... -I want you to be the last man I ever sleep with -I only want your c*m.

[Asker]

should I just ask him if he'd like it if I cussed in bed? yeah we love each other, so I think romantic statements would be good to.

[Zebrah]

Talk about what you are going to do before you do it? Like, build up the tension, and just drag it out. I don't have many things to say though that would be innovative...aha XD

[Anonymous]

I usually just communicate what I like and don't like...If I don't like something I'll move him to where it feels good.

[qww382]

What about some stuff like "ohhh come on daddy", "I want to ride you", "it's so deeeep"

[Asker]

daddy might creep him out, it's hot to me but I like the "i want to ride you" thanks.

[WoIIie]

"Is it in yet?"

"Is that all of it?"

"I've had bigger."

"F*** me harder you poosy!"

"That didn't take very long.."

"You are not very good at this!"

[Asker]

is that what you have heard said to you in the past?

[dIO_oIb]

"wrong hole idiot" "my ex lasted longer" "is your brother single?" "is your dad single?" "is your dog neutered?" "your the reason why they invented dildos" "that's it?"

[WoIIie]

Nope, but it's a fear. That fear combined with the fact most girls wouldn't have the audacity to say such things is a turn-on.

[WoIIie]

dlO, you're teasing me :)

[dIO_oIb]

:), just a little bit.

[westman74]

I love hearing "slow down.. oh god it's almost too big..." :) I used to get that a lot before I was married...

[Asker]

i tell him he's huge all the time, he doesn't believe me :X but I'll try saying that.

[taster]

Ya know...as one of the resident dinosaurs...ima say that I've heard a lot of weird sh*t over the years...so...let's not talk ..or say anything...a few animal noises at a lower level of volume will work quite nicely thank you...

[kheserthorpe]

hahahahaha. It killed me for some reason that you don't want to hear weird sh*t ;) What kind of open minded lover are you?

[taster]

Who SAID that I am open-minded? Let us see how open-minded you are in 20 years! LOL! But I wasn't necessarily referring to just sexual talk...haven't you ever had a female talk about insane or inane things in bed?

[Asker]

like "take me to your leader?"

[taster]

PMSL ! Yeah..u just never know...and NEVER, NEVER mention mother-in-law...have never been a domestic abuser...but it COULD happen...

[Kain6th]

Ummm yeah what you said right there is perfect for me.

[Anonymous]

"OH GOD! FCUK ME!" or "FCUK YEAH! HARDER!"...or just "mmm...fcuk yeah"

Not gonna lie, I just got semi-hard writing all that...

[Anonymous]

You can say that it f*** that little p**** of mine or i,m your,s little bitch and this one well get him going i,m your slut do what ever you what to me and the last one that it make me come baby

[Asker]

do guys really like when women call themselves bit*hes or sluts?

[WoIIie]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

my ex said thing like that to me and it drove me nuts because I love it

[Anonymous]

You could call him a sex god, or say something nice about the size of his penis. Other than that you seem to be doing very well.