Girls, what do you do when your guy cums too quickly?

Different guys take different times to cum, some cum too quickly like having PE (premature ejaculation) problem. How do you deal with it if your guy suffers from this? Does it affect your relationship?
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  • ahah I **can't** be alone in thinking this... but... I've always thought this is hot!
    In at least 2 ways...

    First, I don't see a "problem" — this just gives ME all the fuck yeahs. The boy's whole body is telling me how hot ••I•• am — so hot that he can't even CONTROL himself... because he's just THAT into ME. Me me me me me #mmhmm
    and I mean. Can I blame him? I've always been into me, too.
    Boy got good taste! <3

    And second — If you've read much that I've written here, you'll know just how much I LOVE little power games, and sweet, sweet hatelust... sex as a rivalry. Oh god yeah. That's where it's AT, boys and girls.
    If the boy blows early?
    ... I **WIN** that round.
    'Zat it, boy? Gna lose this game... to a guurrrlllll?
    https://m.popkey.co/e00790/dWV9A_s-200x150.gif
    <3 <3

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    In fact, this question reminds me of this one boyfriend-kinda-thing I had in high school. He didn't tend to actually blow his load early — but, HOLY SHIIIIITTT this boy had a volume of pre-cum unlike anything I've ever **seen**, before or since.
    It was UNREAL. All I had to do was talk some shit to him, cop a bitchy attitude (in the sexy way, not the standoffish way), and run my nails down his shirt once or twice... and then I'd reach into his shorts and there was a freakin' DELUGE in there.

    First time that happened, he was starting to get embarrassed...
    ... until I pulled my hand back out, and licked it clean one finger at a time while staring him down the whole time. "So... ya LIKE me," I said. ahha.

    Boy bodies, mmm. They're so fascinating. And fun to play with.

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    ··•• BUT ••··

    This would quickly cross the line into "not hot" IF the boy was just ••toast••... done for the night. Like, couldn't get hard again at all, AND showed NO enthusiasm for continuing the fun by other means.

    Know what tho? That's happened to me 0 times, ever.
    Just a little of the right stimulation, and they've ALL been ready to go again... in a blink.
    Refractory periods, I've learned, are more of a self-fulfilling prophecy than anything else. Boys can GO AGAIN. Fuck yeah they can. #tryharder

    The WORST would be if the boy was just cripplingly embarrassed, to the point of ruining the whole vibe.
    Fortunately, I haven't had that happen, either. The few flashes of embarrassment that DID happen, have disappeared with a quickness when I started taunting the boy about "losing that round"... and pissing him off in the best possible way.
    ... c'mon boy... take it all out on me. No break time with this bitch. <3

    • I agree that it's a HUGE compliment for a guy to be so turned on by me that he comes right away. TBH, when guys don't come pretty quickly I start to wonder if I'm off my game that day lol

    • @TayTay21 ... YESSSS THANK YOU.

      This is just all goals, too, because I'm pretty ADHD when it comes to the actual act of fucking.

      Our whole married life is basically constant, extended hatelust foreplay (as I wrote here — woman's mho)
      www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1947176-how-do-you-foreplay
      ... and the boy puts me on all kinds of "probation" for being a bad nasty wife... so, yh, y'ain't gna hear any complaints from over here about short duration ••the first time••.
      The FIRST round is for... exploding as soon as that man ••touches•• me, because it's been DAYS of constant, escalating teasing (we have a BIG family now, so, it gets to be a while sometimes) ... and then having him beat me up.
      ... From the inside.
      <3

      That peak intensity doesn't need to last long. It CAN'T last long.
      We can get to the leisurely stuff later. When he's done ••breaking•• me.

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      The best part is, I can STILL make the boy empty

    • his first load — even after more than 16 years of marriage — by shoving ••those•• fingers of my left hand right into his mouth. We got marriage goals, in this house. ... Commitment, boy. ... Suck it. <3

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  • If the man understands that only 30% of women orgasm from penetration, then he works it out with the woman that she has an orgasm from manual means before he even puts his dick in, then he doesn't have to even worry that much about his orgasm coming too quickly. It may still be frustrating because we wanted to have it last longer as a couple, but at least both people got an orgasm from it, so it's not dissatisfying.

    PE is not a disease. And who decides what counts as "premature"?

    Just get your lady off first and quit worrying about it.

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  • umm.. I've never really dealt with that all too much aside from maybe the first two months of our relationship. I didn't really have to 'deal' with it because all it took was him letting me know what was up and a bit of open communication (him stopping thrusting and letting me know why) each time we had sex and the 'issue' was resolved within a month.

  • it wouldn't affect our relationship unless he is unwilling to help me as well, due to it causing sexual frustration after a while. I would for sure cheer him up if it made him feel insecure or bad about cumming to soon

  • My guy doesn't have this problem. If it happens, then he can finish me off with his hands or mouth

  • I couldn't be sympathetic towards health issues on the bed, for sure. If premature ejaculation is a condition that the guy suffers, I surely would not like it. But, if his cumm comes too quickly because he can't resist me any longer for how hot I am, then its a game I would definitely play. While guy would resist, I could try pushing his limits. 😇💕

    • Have you had any such experience in the past, where the guy cums too quickly?

  • Rattans to the balls. He'll only do it once.

  • I find when you pull their balls away from their body a bit and squeeze them a little too it takes them longer to cum

  • It's happened way too many times but as long as the guy cums and doesn't go limp it's a good thing right? Lol

    • I agree

  • no if he cum to quick I'll hold onto him tightly then cuddle him and try to go slow next time

  • ID start sucking his penis to make it had again and continue with the sex session. Maybe that way he'll be more confident and lasts like ne'er, but if not I'd make him eat me out to make him taste himself in me that would work well. Lol

  • Rarely happens to Hubby but it has, usually when I have put him off for to long so its really my fault. He will usually finish me in other ways.

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