My guy and I started with a couple. We both LOVED it. Now we are full blown swingers, we go to parties, and have all sorts of sex fantasies. Maybe you should try that first. Ease her into it. Also, make sure you assure you will not be angry with her. That could be her worry. I always had a rape fantasy, so him and his friend came over in middle of night and tied me up and "raped" me. It was best night of my life! I just discussed it beforehand to make sure HE was OK with it.. It all turned out fine. Also, we have rules we go by, such as we don't allow kissing, that's intimate and just for us. But just to make sure you are both on same page. Good Luck!
jeez -- a lot of girls on here seem more open then my girlfriend -- I don't know how I've scared her away from it now haha.. she was down when she first started talkin to me about it
I would say that if she said she wanted to, she probably does. I had concerns at first. My biggest , was that he would lose respect for me. and, that he would be angry. Talk with her about her fears. It has actually brought us closer. We are a good team, and our sex life is always exciting!
I would never do it, the thought is degrading and scary to me. Multiple guys using me like a come bucket doesn't turn me on
If your girlfriend says she just likes fantasizing then don't try and convince her, sounds like her mind is made up. Sometimes people will fantasize about something but it doesn't mean they actually want to go through with it. I do that a lot, my fantasies are wilder than I want to be in real life. If it is that important to you you should break up with her instead of finding another girl to do it with, or find a girlfriend who's open to that if you just can't let it go lol.
I've done this with my boyfriend and a few lads we met on night out it was amazing I loved every minute of it and so did my boyfriend. Were now planning on doing it again :)
how did he get you to do it? And how did you go about getting it together?
Mentioned it when I was turned on so I realized I wanted it, started of with a 3sum a few times and ended up in gang bang. Can go on websites to find lads or lasses or couples who are looking (okcupid and adult gumtree) :)
Oh and ignore her above NEVER ever use your friends ever it will cause so much trouble! Always use people you don't socialise with stops jealousy (you'll end up jealous and insecure leaving her with your friends at any point after)
Wow all this talk is really Interesting I am an older man and have always thought of being part of a gangbang or a Double penitration and it seems the older I become the further that gets from ever happening and my woman would never do this. I have brought it up several times so am I gonna die wondering how it would be. because that is the way I feel and getting off for me is very diffecult most of the time but those thoughts seem to get me there
Have the "I REALLY want to make this happen; how can we do this?" talk. Some girls will (foolishly) take your driving fantasies as a passing phase, and need to be snapped out of it. Anyways, she ought to know that this *will* go down, so that she can decide whether she will be the girl.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I dunno...I like fantasizing about it but I don't know that I'd ever want to actually do it.
whys that?
Just because I feel like I really have to trust someone A LOT to have sex with them and I'd probably rather keep it between me and whatever boyfriend I have at the time. Plus there's always the possibility of jealousy if there are any girls involved. I'd just rather not deal with all of that.
so you wanna share her?
i don't think you should push her into it, she won't like the pressure.
and she might like the idea of it, but most of the times, girls won't go for it cause they would feel like sluts if they did things like that.
and do not cheat, ever. cheaters are the worst.
yea.. me and a few of my friends all thought it'd be fun to just invite a girl over one night and do w/e.. but idk
don't cheat man, you'll regret it and you'll hurt her more than you can imagine.
the only d*** I like to see when I'm f***ing is my own.
Isn't a gang bang composed of one guy and multiple girls?
google image it
I'm in a public place, I'd rather not :p
I would do it
You would do it well lets do it
It turned out to be one of the best nights of my life. I came and came and came. my husband got off watching and participating. We even played games such as blindfolding me and making me guess who was fu(king me or eating me. If I guessed wrong I would get a spanking and then had to guess who was spanking me or I'd get it harder.
o wow! how did you and your husband first get this going?
He's wanted to it for years but never told me until recently. When I found out which people he had in mind I got them together on his birthday for a "surprise party". It was quite a hit and we've never been closer or happier. The actual sex was incredible, I would recommend every women try it at least once. You don't know what you're missing.
I love it, my boyfriend calls it "spit roasting" me. The most I've done is 4 guys in a night. I was great! multiple, multiple orgasms. Girls, you have to try it at least once. You'll be very surprised how quickly you get addicted. Just get your friends together and do it. She'll love it!
how did you first get it going? You think its OK if your b/fs guy friends?
your answer turned me on... I apologize...
He told me it was one of his fantasies and I was aroused when he told me. So he told his friends and they surprised me by "kidnapping" me in my apt parking lot driving me to one of their apts and gang raping me. The second time we took X, I nevver came so hard in my life.
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