What do you think about losing your virginity in a car? Too unclassy?

[Anonymous]

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend, but we both still live at home with out parents and we don't have cars, so its hard to do so... BUT his dad is buying him a car in a week. Yesterday I was makingout with him, and I told him that I was ready to take it to the next step, and he said he was too.. I then asked him when, and he said we will "very soon, I promise. When we can make sure that we won't get caught".. Do you think he is planning on doing it in his new car? And do you think that is a horrible way to lose it?

[Standingpretty]

I think comfort wise it would not be the best. It also depends on the car. A minivan would be a lot easier to commence in than a mustang. Also, in a car there may not be as many places to go as you think. Even remote areas have people passing by and some places even have hidden cameras. I wouldn't suggest someone who doesn't have the physical feel of sex down to have it in a car. I would suggest maybe finding a room to rent one night or waiting until everyone is gone. There's ways to sneak around it. You want to be comfortable your first time because it's probably going to hurt a lot, and a car will not provide comfort. You might also try outside, as long as it's safe where you are at. You are still taking a risk, but it might provide more comfort than a car and it leaves little chance for your parents to find out. Good luck!

[katiesmuff]

Many a girl has lost it in a car so it would be called unclassy. What I find unreal is the lack of effort put into finding a spot. When I was 14 I was doing it with a 19 year old guy and we both still lived at home, but we found places to do it. For instance has to be sometime when parents are gone from one house or another, how about outdoors, friends house etc.

[queenofpeen]

It's all about what YOU want, it's YOUR sex life. It doesn't matter what other people think.

That being said, my personal opinion is that it's cute. It might not be "perfect," but when is the first time ever incredible? I think it'll make a good memory :)

[TheRealAttila]

It's not really where you lose it, it's how you lose it. If you feel ready, then it shouldn't matter whether it's in his car or on top of the eiffel tower. What do you think will be more important to you, the fact that the seat belt was digging in your back or that you were both lost in an amazing moment of deep connection? It's all somewhat inconsequential in the end, but I think the location is the least of your worries...

[Distant]

I lost my virginity in my room in the same situation as you. You just have to find a time when no one is home. Car is very classless, in my opinion. Fine for a quickie but not for virginity.

[snowangle]

A friend of mine once told me, "Never have sex in a car. It is so uncomfortable." I am a virgin so I wouldn't know. But my advice is, for your first time make sure you are comfortable.

[SkinnyG]

Lol. Maybe that's what he was thinking. My first was in an old 70's conversion van. Ya know the ones with the crushed velvet couch in the back. We were really young so we didn't care. The only weird part was his brother and his girlfriend were in the front. We were at a drive-in movie. But they had the curtains drawn behind their seats and they knew what we were doing. It was pretty awkward though. Neither one of us had a clue what we were doing.

[raineydaygurl]

i wouldn't want to lose it in a car,having sex in a car after your first time is different.not easy but fun . you could try to time it for when no one else is home,bound to happen eventually

[billme1070]

Unscientifically I would bet that more girls lose their virginity in a car than anywhere else. I did.

[RedThread78]

Well how would you like to lose it? Would you want it to be in a car? It depends on how you view it... think about how you would feel about it years from now.

[MikeK]

I don't think it's unclassy - just kind of a lame spot for your first time

[Chingy1998]

I may only be young still, but that doesn't mean I can't answer a question like this. I don't think it matters where or how you loose it. The only thing you should be thinking is that you are about to share something... MAGICAL with the guy you absolutely, no doubt love. It should only matter that you are with the one you should be with. Aside from that, nothing else in the world -wether it be family, friends, or lifestyle- should even matter. :)

[Anonymous]

It's not "classy", but does it really matter? Just have sex if you want to.

[Anonymous]

You wouldn't be the first and definitely not the last but really you have to do what is right for you and not care what others think.

Do you think he will tell everyone what you two did in his car? Are you planning on telling everyone? No one even needs to know, it's none of anyone else's business anyway.

[Asker]

No, he is definitely a privite guy and so am I, we would keep it between the two of us

[Opinion Owner]

Then if you are comforable with it, go for it. If not then wait for a better spot. It is about the experience so do what is right for you and him and don't worry about what others think. Me and my ex husband used to have sex in the car just to spice up our sex life. Sure some people think it's unclassy but it is none of their business.