What do you think about submissive women?

Lets say we are dating and really into each other and after about 7 months of dating and talking openly about sex, I told you that I want to seriously be dominated. I want you to hold my head still and f*** my face...not violently and too rough but I do want it done. And I might want my hands tied behind my back with one of your ties. I am attractive, confident, mature, educated and can support myself.. But with a man I feel young, innocent and eager to please emotionally and physically. I really just want to feel taken. So what do you think of a submissive woman ?
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well As I said I'm eager to please... I like when my man tells me "f*** my d***". Either way I always start out on top and do plenty of work ;)
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  • As a natural dominant myself, I tend to not only just end up primarily with other dominant male friends, but also much more naturally attract and end up befriending or being lovers with submissive women. In short, to the vast majority of masculine heterosexual men, including me, having a sexually submissive partner, especially one who vocalizes her specific desires by "talking dirty", is an absolute DREAM COME TRUE. Of course I'm not some psycho, like many feminazis will have you try to believe. I only am turned on by sexual submission at all if it is completely genuine and pleasing to my female partner. Now this gets into murky territory, as true experienced female submissives often also crave and gain pleasure from a certain amount of pain, manhandling, and essentially degrading speech and action. Of course there are things I would never do and find repulsive that exist in the realm of submissive desires. I would never cause bleeding or scarring from anything, but I will readily admit that the best sex I've had has consistently been with openly submissive feminine women who desire being manhandled. The amount of trust and skill involved knowing that she knows I would never actually hurt her makes things much hotter mentally before ever even getting into bed. An especially steamy example would be a lover texting me at work saying she can't wait for me to get home, throw her on her knees, and fuck her throat, or throw her on the bed and fuck her ass. By the time I get home from work, the sexual tension for us both has already built to epic levels. Hence the release is also much more satisfying. A typical session of sex after a text like that where I wait hours before I can see the lady in question, goes extremeky well for me and my previous extremely submissive partners. It always made us both come harder, more often, and just generally agree the sex was fantastic. A typical session would start with me sitting down on the couch and ordering her (because she has specified she loves commands) to sit next to me. She would smile and comply while saying "Yes sir." or "Yes Daddy." only because I've told her how hot it makes me when an openly submissive girl even addresses my dominance in her speech. She sits down and I begin caressing her hair and neck and French kissing her, and then I suddenly stop, to put one hand tightly around her neck and force eye contact. Her eyes show she is getting aroused as possible, but also glisten with... Continued in next post-

  • Oh, its so f***in hot. My ex was like that and she was so sexy and feminine. It is an ego-boost to be with a submissive girl. She makes you feel like you're a king, like you're a boss and you're on top of the world. Are you submissive in the way you treat your man as well, or just during sex? My ex would give me foot massages, she loved cooking for me, etc. She just knew how to take care of a man. The sex part is hot on its own. My ex would do almost anything I wanted in bed, she let me call the shots but she definitely wasn’t lazy – knew how to ride extremely well, she gave amazing blow jobs, sometimes she would grind on me or give me lapdances and shake her ass for me if I wanted her to. Not lazy at all during sex. She just followed orders like a good little bitch. ;)

    And it’s a two way street. Yes, I’M the man, I wear the pants, and I’m in charge, but the way she trusted me to dominate her and the way she was so willing to please me in whatever way she could made me want to take care of her. So I was always really romantic, I bought her nice things, I had no problem doing something she wanted to do, and in bed I f***ed the hell out of her and made sure to eat her p**** and make her come. It’s a trade off. Not that I don’t like dominant girls, but submissive women are the ideal for me. They usually know how to be sexy in a way that makes you want to make love to them and tear them apart at the same time.

    • This is exactly what I like!

    • Me too!!! I want a man like this!!! Except I don't want to be his ex lol

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  • I mean I'm not a submissive type of woman, but not everyone has to be like me. I don't believe in encouraging women to be submissive but if you are naturally that way as an individual...go for it. Just be careful is all I would say, if your submissiveness also translates into an emotional and financial dependence on men that isn't psychologically healthy or safe. That's pretty much all I would say, as I know some submissive girls who tend to fit that picture and don't see the problem or deal with it until much later. One of my closest friends was like that and she's very submissive, not direct in confronting situations that are completely wrong or unfair for her. I have more of a dominant personality, and I feel like I'm always trying to talk her into not letting people sh*t on her and finding self respect. She's such a door mat and I hate it. If you find yourself so willing to please and putting his needs first that you find yourself in this territory, that's when I think there's a problem.

    but you are what you are. your beliefs, your life experiences, your psychology, etc. are your own and they will play into what kind of sexual and emotional partner you will be. And I know a lot of guys love submissive women so you really don't have to be concerned about that. lol get your freak on and be happy :)

  • My boyfriend and I are into all of that stuff. He says it turns him on so much being aggressive and dominant with me. He'd never tried some of the stuff we do until he met me but we both enjoy it a lot.

    • What sorts of things? I find the favorites of girls are choking, spanking, deep thriat, and anal ;)

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  • Shall we get married now? Or go through the troublesome, time consuming dating first?

  • As a dominant man sexually, I'm just ever so grateful that there are submissive women in the world. I have a sadistic streak as well so for me, she needs to be a masochist as well. Almost all women have experienced erotic pain in some form. Having your t*ts squeezed hard or you nipples twisted or pinched harder than would be comfortable. When we're really turned on, endorphins like those in athletes raise our pain tolerance right through the roof.

    That said, when playing rough, it's very important to have safe words: one for slow and one for stop. I like "yellow light" as a word that says we're okay but don't increase the intensity for a little while so she can adjust to what 's happening. "Red light" means stop what you're doing so we can talk because I'm afraid I'm about to be injured. She should be very reluctant to use these as they seriously disrupt the scene but I'd light years rather she do that than feel abused. All D/s play starts and ends with her consent. No consent, no rough stuff, period.

    • I think my guy is into a little s and m and I'm a little scared. not that he'd ever hurt me... but idk, he likes to hold me down and tease me A LOT before I get anything. sometimes it makes me feel a little bad? idk... like he's totally in control of me and I don't know if I like that. I know he's not really in control of me, but I want him to know that he's not in control of me. What do I do? I like his dominance, but I don't want to be totally submissive to him... does that make sense?

  • <3

  • I'd love it. I like being dominant without going too rough.

  • I would drop to one knee and propose to you on the spot.

  • I wouldn't be surprised, as I always assume a girl is submissive since 99% of them are.

    Its typical. I find it more strange when a girl tries to make her submissiveness out to be this unique trait we would have never expected her to have.

  • Girl I'm with you all the way! I want the man to take over in the bed!

  • Bring her on.

  • I'd suffer through it o_O :7

  • I LOVEEEE dominant men

  • Yeah, I can go for it.

    But I'd like an even trade: sex gets SO boring if a girl doesn't establish a little dominance at least once in awhile... my friend said it best - "for once, I want a girl who is going to f*** ME: not me f*** her"... you know?

  • Submissive would be fun, but its always nice if she would take charge as well.

  • its hot.

    many girls want that.

  • Hot

  • Submissive women never show interest nor pursue men. They let men show interest in them and pursue them and stalk them. Men are natural born stalkers and hunters.

    • is this a bad thing?

  • I like to be dominated to he is in control of what happens

  • I LOVE submissive women. I think that's how nature meant us to be (for much of human evolution, except the past two generations or so).

    And by the way, I also LOVE dominant women. If you think there's a contradiction in what I say, there isn't. I like both kinds, but not at the same time. It's fine if the same woman is submissive and dominant, alternatively. I could adjust... it's just that both types attract. One needs to change a mental switch, and needs a few seconds to adjust.

    The reason why guys love dominant women is that you (a guy) need to do less "work" when you're with them, and you can "take a break" from having to lead at all times. When it comes to submissive women, being in "control" (a typical guy thing) is also very ego-boosting...

    From my experience, quite a few women like to be submissive, and are quite open about it...